BOB DYLAN asked:
I have a dark side filled with things that I am afraid to talk about. Letting
the beast out of the cage, so to speak. My first wife left me because I tried to explain it. What say you ?
The darkside of war.
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I have a dark side filled with things that I am afraid to talk about. Letting
the beast out of the cage, so to speak. My first wife left me because I tried to explain it. What say you ?
The darkside of war.
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everyone has a dark side…the right person will be ok with it, they might not understand it completely but they would try to and they would not judge you…it takes courage to open up.
i dont have a soul mate yet coz im only 14 lol but i cant wait to have someone that i can tell everything to its gunna be so cute =) lol if u dont want to share some things thats up to you and you make your own choices in life. If thats why she left you, she wasnt worth it shes supose to love you for who you are not what she want you to be.
hope that helped =)
I trust him in everything but I do think women have to have their secrets so I just keep little things just for me
Yes im the same way. But i cant tell ANYONE anything about my dark side. Not even my best friend or my boyfriend. I just don’t tell anyone because im afraid of what they will think and what they will say.
Im sorry that your wife left you.
I think somethings are better left unsaid. But your dark side your wife needs to know. Call her and tell her you need to talk.
Hope it helps
I no what your going through.
I told my best friend something really bad and then we didn’t talk for ages then we sorted the thing out.
i’m not sure how dark these things you speak of are…dark enough for your wife to leave you?
sometimes you really need to get to know someone well enough to know whether you feel comfortable telling t hem these things, but not only that, ask urself if they will really accept what you tell them.
i mean, i dont know what these dark things are, but u have to ask urself if its better kept a secret, or let out into the open…i mean what if they have to find out the hard way? by accident?
also ask urself why ur telling them….i guess it feels like a burden’s been lifted off ur shoulders in the end and u can trust ur soul mate w/ ur life.
but really, there are questions u g2 ask urself, i dont want ot assume and give wrong advice!!
good luck!
xx
I really admire you for at least trying to share it with someone you loved. It seems every man has dark secrets he fears sharing. My husband told me, ” No one knows me and no one ever will”. We are seperated now because of his “dark side”. The bad part is, he could have told me anything and I would have still loved and accepted him, if he had just given himself up. That is the risk we take of loving others, I guess. But I am a Christian and I believe in unconditional love. I’m really sorry you got burned. It hurts.
No, not at all. I was about to crack before I told my soul-mate, who is my partner, how I was feeling.
I’m sorry to hear about your first wife who left you when you wanted to explain how you felt. Not everyone will react in the same way as your first wife. The person you share things with doesn’t have to be your soulmate – can be a friend, or a colleague (both as long as you trust them of course) or even on the Internet. Just letting everything out helps.
Hope I helped.
My husband and I share everything. We got married when I was 16, so I didn’t really have much of a life before that.
yes ,i am , but i don’t have a bad beast or make anyone leave
I share everything with my soul mate . He knows all my little dark secrets and about my dark side and is in fact intrigued with it as we are so much alike in that aspect .
Some times it is not what you are telling the other person that freaks them out , but how much you tell them at one time . It is best sometimes to tell someone you are unsure of how they will respond, a small amount at a time and try to read their reaction before proceeding further .
I am in the firm belief that a true soul mate accepts you for all that makes you you . Including your dark side .
there are things in our pasts that need not be talked about. i would keep them to myself. starting new with some on should be that,new. but there are some things that we can talk about if they are funny.
Hi chap from a man to a man Don’t go there – you experienced all – somethings are better not said
..my life’s a open book…i share with everybody,,,,,and material things mean nothing to me…..seamanab
hey .. ur right …!!
honesty isnt always the best policy … My soulmate left me in distress, when I took up honesty …
He cleverly played the cards, so as to not to make me feel that he left me coz I disclosed some of the stupid past life I had…!!!
I regret telling him to this moment …..!!
People change their colours so easily , dude!!
Beware ……. Dont give in to reptiles, coz most humans are reptiles!
There are experiences and thoughts early on in my life which have shaped me into the enigma that I am today. I project one image to my friends (which is about 75% real me) and another to my family (probably about 90% me). However, I like the odd 10 or 25% being left completely to Sam, because nobody will truly know who you are except your maker and yourself. That’s what makes life so interesting in my opinion, even though there will be important people in your life coming and going, the challenge for them will be to try and understand you as much as they can while they have time on this earth. That’s my take anyway…
the only guy that i honestly loved, i opened up completely with
about everything
things that i swore to myself that i wouldnt tell anyone
and surprisingly he had some of the same secrets
and he understood and he still loved me
and we were closer than ever it felt good to have someone that understood every detail about me
but winter came that year
and it was colder than ever
and we grew apart
and he still keeps my secrets with him
and i keep his
and its true that you never forget your first love.
No i believe honesty is the best policy but if you have been hurt in the past like myself it might take you a while to open up. If i were you i would find some quite time and gently open up a bit and see how you get on from there. You know you have a friend in me bob if you ever want to talk. xxxx
Good luck with this.
some things are personal and i do not readily share them
i don’t have a dark side but i do have things that i prefer not to talk over with a man …..even my husband
i tell my hubby most things…but there are things from the past that he doesn’t need to know about…& i’m sure he wouldn’t want to hear
…the past is past & that’s where i like it to remain…i’ve closed the door on it in my mind!
everybody has a dark side i dont have a soulmate at the moment but when i do meet him their will be a proper time and place for everything.
well everyone has a side like that but if your comfortable with your soul-mate you should be able ot talk to them about anything i can talk to mine about anything besides ts nice to be able to talk to them about stuff try it
Yes, there are many things that are painful for me to talk about.I don’t have a mate . you know we can open our hearts…together …miss talking to you. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
No, but there are just some things you just can’t share with them no matter how much you’d like to, they judge you for it, they accuse you about it ect…, you just can’t.
I’m not afraid to, but my father taught me that if I tell everything to my “soul mate”, then I will have nothing left of myself. Do you feel the need to tell her?
open up to her..the right one will listen, understand, and accept you for who you really are..
Well Bob, I have been with Sawman for 23 years and we share everything with each other. Trust has to be a key to open up to someone. We all have gone through some every tough and difficult things in our lives and to be able to talk about them is very hard.Take care my friend
Look, I hope you don’t hurt children in any way. If you do don’t except my advice go get help.
Anyhow I would say don’t share your whole self with any person. The back fire of a fall out makes any deep dark secrets mere weapons to use against you. In the end you do yourself in and suffer the repercussions.
i have a darkside as well,
but it takes courage to tell the
person you love the truth.
i havent even told my bf the TRUTH.
yeah and now they tell me i can’t drink anymore.
if anyone knew everything about me they would never speak to me again.if they knew where i had been and what i’ve seen, and that i had done the things i have,they would turn their heads in disgust.but having not been there and seen it they can’t really understand what i’ve done.
god bless you brother ,he does know ,but doesn’t care he’s seen and understands ,and will never turn his back on you ,or will i.