Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage?
King_Of_America asked:
I know it is very funny, but seriously i have seen the best and worst of both, what’s better in ur opinion as the whole family’s future depends on this big decision.
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I know it is very funny, but seriously i have seen the best and worst of both, what’s better in ur opinion as the whole family’s future depends on this big decision.
Geaser_009 i am impresse dyou are talking sense.
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October 25th, 2009 at 1:32 am
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i have never seen an arranged marriage, so i don’t really have an opinion about them. however, i don’t understand why people marry someone they don’t love, or in many cases, have never even seen. i couldn’t imagine being in a marriage with someone that i didn’t love. it isn’t fair to anyone involved, especially if there are children.
October 25th, 2009 at 2:43 pm
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neither. just reasonable marriage
October 28th, 2009 at 1:29 pm
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I would think a love marriage is better, as long as the couple doesn’t fall out of love.
October 29th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
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October 30th, 2009 at 7:30 pm
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I would suggest arrange marriage ..USA UK And other parts are so much into love marriage that the percentage of divorces is 75%.. and Out of 100 married partners 80 partners have an affair outside marriage or else will have *** with someone..So whats the use of love when u end of in divorce or fooling ur partner..In india the percentage of divorce is very low cause the parents always find the right and suitable partners who’ll live life long and the ones who divorce have done love marriage so u see its practical arrange marriages always work.
October 31st, 2009 at 7:18 pm
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i think marrying for love,but then again too easy to fall out of love again,however an arranged marriage you can learn to love {is that any good}
November 3rd, 2009 at 2:34 am
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Love for sure…
November 4th, 2009 at 1:55 am
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Its a relative issue… marriage is a social ceremony but a married life is about compatibility and adjustments. If you are more concerned about your family… you better opt for a care-taker than a wife. In true sense, if your wife/ husband loves you then he/she should love and respect each and every thing you love… and hence, if you love your family, then she should do the same. But, reality bites… and in today’s fast paced world you can’t expect a Mr/Mrs. Right in your life. On the other hand, arranged marriage is more about family bindings and somehow i believe its an insult to the freedom or freewill of humanity. When it involves your life you should make a choice and your family can only guide you – but you should give the final verdict.
So the bottom-line is – arranged marriage is out and love marriage is in…but again the irony is – ‘marriages are made in heaven’… but this is our planet earth and we are no angels… think about it!
November 5th, 2009 at 11:54 pm
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I have never seen an arranged marriage, however I think that is a good idea. I know that in places like Arabia, they still do that, and the marriages really work. The Muslims have a theory (I know this for a friend who is Muslim) that says that we “Occidental People” first start dating, then fell in love, then get married and then begin to “really know” that person, then we see each others defects (and of course we don’t like what we see), then we **** each other and then get divorce.
Orientals, in the other hand, find a good husband or wife for their son/daughter, they don’t meet each other until the wedding, they start living together and knowing each other and then they begin to fall in love little by little (because love growths daily, with romanticism, with little details and by getting to know each other). And since divorce is not allowed (just under some serious circumstances) they really work day by day to make that marriage work.
November 6th, 2009 at 10:57 pm
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I support Arrange Marriages. Ppl who get their own gf/bf have the option to think “is he/she the right person for me”, they start complaining before marriages, this is another reason for so many break ups. Also after marriage, they say “you were different b4 marriage and now u’ve changed, i dont love you anymore”.
Parents are the best judge for our life. They wouldn’t want their son/daughter to marry somebody who is not suitable for him/her. They choose from millions. They are more experienced and mature. They will find the best for us. If not best, then better.
In my opinion Arrange Marriages should be supported.
btw, King of america, i like tht u report abuses. Good work dude. Especially tht sicko derek!! keep up the good work.