Ragazza Blusera asked:


My very best friend and I were always close and still are, and at one point he asked if we could be more than friends, but we lived in different countries at the time and I was afraid of ruining our closeness. But now I’m so sad because I’ve made a terrible mistake, he has a gf and they are closer than he and I are (even though he and I are still close).
I thought: The friendship is too special to ruin. But now I wonder if we had been more than friends, I might have found true and lasting love. it never ocurred to me that eventually he would want to share his life with someone and so would I and I never thought about how that would affect the friendship. I love him more than i’ve ever loved anyone and it makes me feel insignificant and lonely to see him loving and being romantic with another girl. I want a special person so badly but I know in my heart that no one else will ever be as special to me.
I feel so sad when i look around and I’m surrounded by happy girls who have bfs who love them and I feel so insignificant and sad. But, I don’t want to settle for someone just for the sake of being in a relationship, and no one could ever be as special to me as my best friend.

How do you move on, when there’s nothing to move on to?
Why am I so stupid?

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StrawburryBaby asked:


Ok well as some of u know from my previous question “should i tell my parents or just hide it” i am still dating him he is 16 and im 14 almost 15 and when he turns 18(adult) he is coming down to visit me but i will b 16 (minor) is that illigal? what it the dating age leagl thingy? lol

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Steffi asked:


My roommate is now dating my ex who I do not get along with. Him and I broke up over a year ago, and we only dated a few weeks because he was so bloody annoying. She just got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship, and jumped into one with my ex. But still, she claims she is madly in love with him even though he treats her like shit.

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JULIE asked:


do u believe in true love? what does true love signify and mean to u? i was in a “true love” situation with a guy. he was my 1st boyfriend. it was so cute cuz we were in 4th grade. well now i am a senior in High school. well i moved after 4th grade, losing all contact with him. i have had many relationships since then, but i don’t know why i am still so in love with him even though i haven’t see or heard from him in 8 yrs. i had dreams of marrying him some day, spending every moment of my life with him. i guess dreams are meant to be shattered… i still hope that someday i will meet him, because he is the love of my life.

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diamond gal asked:


I did really stupid and selfish things to my boyfriend I was going through a lot (unwanted pregnancy which I wound up terminating please no judgement) and I was drinking a lot (which I know is stupid) and I was verbally abusive to him and he asked me for space which I was unable to give him because I was so afraid of losing him. As time went on I only made things worse. I would suffocate him and do outlandish things. I am convinced I truly do love him I was just going through a rough patch (at this point this is what I think) but at this point he wants nothing to do with me (which I dont blame him for) but they say true love never dies. If he TRULY loved me would he have left? and stopped loving me? I am working everyday to change myself and make myself better I contacted him to apologize and let him know I was sorry and told him I loved him and I figured I would leave it to him but if he truly loved me that should never die. Am I wrong? I realize I messed up and I am working on me.
He seemed like he doesnt love me anymore. Granted he could just be hurt and need time to get over it but he has said to me before I never loved anyone as much as I loved you in my entire life and I dont think I ever will again. I smiled and he said that includes you as well

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chipmunk asked:


i personally think true love takes times….some go out for like 3 months and say they truely love eachother….i really dont agree with that….for those who truely love their partner, could u please tell me the difference between true love and just liking somone?….and could true love happen when u r 17???

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