Lioness asked:


Some consider having stable job with a good dental plan, making 40K a year, a good career. Others consider making their first million and not having to work every day, a good career. Where does your definition fall? The same with marriage. And once you define them, is it possible to have both at the same time?

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Clever_Cat asked:


I’m a regular in the Singles and Dating section on here as well as the Marriage and Divorce section, and I am constantly apppalled at what I see. There are so many young girls on there that feel a man has every right to control them. What do you think our society is doing to perpetuate this? And does everyone else see it as a big a problem as I do?

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Stale White Male asked:


My son is turning 18 soon and has recently begun dating. However his first girlfriend has very small breasts, probably an A-cup. Now god bless his heart, he loves her ever so much, but I’d like to set a firm precedent to avoid future heartbreak.

I wouldn’t want him to be ridiculed by his friends and classmates for ‘going out with a flatty’ as I would have been back in my younger years. Unendowed females are also generally emotionally unstable due to low self-esteem (I don’t want a teenage drama queen on my son’s hands!)

My biggest worry is that many years down the line, their female children would be ‘flat chicks’ as well. I’d like my son to be a spittin’ image of his old man, and to help him avoid some obvious mistakes.

Should I forbid him from dating her or let him figure it out for himself over time?

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victornumber asked:


what would be the pros and cons of dating and perhaps marrying a powerful independent women? How would the family structure be different? How would the family roles be balanced? Answers from both women and guys?

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Gun asked:


What are some advantages and disadvantages of dating and being in a relationship with a woman who is a feminist?
Are there any advantages at all?

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roughruggedraw asked:


I’m convinced that a big part of the gender wars is that women, in particular, our mothers teach men very little about the opposite sex and how to be successful with the opposite sex. Women and men train their daughters and give them perspective about dating, relationships, marriage etc. Daughters are cherished, coddled, and protected in regards to these issues. Men however are left to fend for themselves and have to resort to trial and error in this arena. For those who find success, they’re able to build and maintain intimate relationships with the opposite sex and are highly sought after. For those who don’t find success, they’re the losers, the creepy guys, the desperate, and the lonely. Why our women failing our boys and young men in this arena? It seems that women even want superiority here as well.

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PortWine asked:


Not which one is worse, which one is easier to spot during dating?

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TruthFinder31 asked:


Holy grail question here, just be honest,, i want the whole thing,,such as

1)money
2)looks
3)beleifs
4)moral values
5)character
6)sex
7)religion
8)race
9)family
10)kids
11)enjoyment
12) every other things you can add

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destinazione20 asked:


After reviewing some answer in this category of study, about a man being tall and muscular as an attraction and having money, being tall and muscular does not mean being able to protect someone, there are many martial artists who will easily prove this, also if most women are attracted to a man for money then why is love even mentioned in this time period for, it feels so hopeless, has poetry become cheesy, have the jesters become the knights and the knights the jesters, why is there so much coldness in these calculations of attraction?

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Ashleigh asked:


Think about it for a minute before You dismiss the idea out of hand.
In a politically correct world where there should be no advantages born from an accident of birth, would it not make sense to ‘de-objectify’ the parties by the simple expedient of each supplying the other with a suitable “token” of Their mutual love and respect? Not merely exchanging “Wedding rings” or Marriage Bands” but an actual “Engagement Ring” given to the betrothed Male.
How many Women, when confronted by this situation would break with tradition as opposed to following the normal proceedure?
I have been asked to marry twice (some people have no taste or are really desperate), and am just curious as to Your perspective.
What are Your personal, honest, rather than P.C., thoughts on the subject?
OK. For the sake of mutual sanity. Suppose I was to tell You that this was the topic of conversation at a cocktail party held for “International Nurses Day”, and that the general consensus of opinion, amoungst the “Girls” I graduated with is that I am entiled to a ring (gold band, square faced, onyx signet design, with a small diamond {not diamonti} inlayed. But then came the “price versus Love” debate. The majority thought that $2.500.oo was more than enough for a ‘Man’s” ring. But that there is not end to the value of a “REAL” Engagement Ring. They also came to a split decision as to whether “real” Men would wear one. 50% each way. So You see just how controvertial this could become.

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