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How do you feel about the woman proposing marriage to a man?

Tuesday 13 May 2008 @ 1:35 pm
proposing marriage
Lioness asked:


Night ya’ll!
What would you prefer personally?

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What can we do about dating violence among teens and college students?

Friday 9 May 2008 @ 4:44 am
dating
edith clarke asked:


In the article “Dating violence prevalent among students”
30 percent of U.S. college students have been in relationships that involve physical aggression, a U.S. expert said. “Even more have been in relationships that are emotionally abusive,” Sandra Stith, director of the marriage and family therapy program at Kansas State University, said in a statement. “Likewise, approximately 25 percent of high school students who are in relationships are subjected to abuse.”

I found more information about the study at the the college web site: “K-State domestic violence expert looks at dating violence among high school, college students

http://www.humec.ksu.edu/news/2007/09/13/k-state-domestic-violence-expert-looks-at-dating-violence-among-high-school-college-students/

This article pointed out that both female and male — are being battered, sexually abused or stalked by their dates, according to the Kansas State University professor Stith.

What can we do about dating violence?
Here’s the short article about the study: “Dating violence prevalent among students”:
http://www.sciencedaily.com/upi/index.php?feed=Science&article=UPI-1-20070914-13134700-bc-us-violentdating.xml

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What is love and is domestic violence a way of showing love for your partner?

Thursday 3 April 2008 @ 1:48 pm
love
helene123 asked:


This is a general question as I am curious as to how fathers can beat up the mother for years, purport to love the children and think that this is normal behaviour. The police see family matters as something entirely different to violence between strangers. Surely, violence is violence and those who beat up another person should be sent to prison.

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Marriage?

Friday 28 March 2008 @ 4:40 pm
marriage
Cindy G asked:


Hi, I am 31 and live in India. I am planning to move to USA/ UK or any other developed country after marriage and for that I am searching for a nice match.

My question is :—– Is the marriage, which is registered under Indian Law, acceptable in UK / USA or we have to register under UK /USA Laws? What is the procedure for that, any website address?

I would like to know about the laws prevelant in USA/ UK about marriage. I live in India do I have to registered under Indian Law will it be acceptable in USA/ UK .Or we have to register under USA/ UK Laws for marriage to be authorized.

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What is offered as collateral for money rendered in divorce settlings?

Sunday 3 February 2008 @ 7:37 am
divorce
oheabastard asked:


I never understood what was met from the other side to compensate that money rendered in a divorce from alimony or prenups or what have you.

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How important is sexual compatibility to you?

Tuesday 29 January 2008 @ 4:59 am
love compatibility
Hoo Ha! asked:


I personally think it is pretty important, but I’m wondering what your feelings of how important it is to you regarding a relationship, especially one that you are considering for long term or marriage even. All I know is that it seems like trap sometimes for a man or woman in a relationship for someone they truly care for and love, but who didn’t truly show their true colors or true sexual preferences or lack thereof until further in the relationship when the feelings and love have already grown strong, making it quite difficult to or even feel guilty to break up, yet disheartened of desires unmet or not desired how you wish or not enough. For example, a person with a very high sex drive and another who could really care less about sex, but didn’t really show those true colors early in the relationship until further down the road. Or perhaps a man or woman who loves to give oral sex (lucky person that is you would think), but the other partner for whatever reason doesn’t like it.
Or vice versa. For an example of compatibility, people with very high sex drives would work quite well and be quite compatible and heck the frigid and prude couples would work as well as they might play monopoly late at night and be content with that together instead of screwing. But on the other hand a couple that are both quite submissive sexually would definitely not seem like an ideal mix there. I don’t know, but that just is kind of comical thinking of that in my head, nothing like hesitant, passive sex. Or too very dominant people in the sack. Well actually that might not be a problem as they would be getting the action, and talk about very wild nights there. I guess recovering would be more of the issue there for that head on wildness, lol. And everything in between I guess with preferences, etc (excluding weird stuff, which is more understandable). A person I talked to said that it’s good to be open right in the beginning, but how the heck does one do that?
That would seem like a good way lose a date, lol.
Are you sure it can be fixed beave from talking and doesn’t the lack of genuine desire kind of ruin it or defeat the purpose? If talking it out fixes the problem and the person does favors now or is more assertive now after talking it out. Many times it might be just because of doing it to please the partner or what turns the person on doing it or wanting to do it is because he or she loves the person or wants to do it or it turns him or her on because of that desire instead of genuine desire. Like if a woman just likes giving head because she’s doing it for me or because she loves me (which is appreciated) but not because she loves or likes dick and loves every inche of the male form (good hygiene of course). The as much as I would love that pleasure, know this, I would just pass then, because there is mental stimulation that is important to a man too. And I feel genuine bodily lust in itself is important. And that goes for the more assertiveness as well.

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How does a parents’ divorce effect a child’s marriage or choice to marry?

Friday 18 January 2008 @ 6:01 pm
divorce
The Mrs. asked:


I believe the rise in divorce several years ago was due to the parents of these men and women divorcing. I also believe the decline of divorce in recent years is a result of many choosing not to marry (single women now out number married women) mainly as a result of seeing their parents divorce.

Now there are many factors such as careers and the acceptance of divorce as a society, but on a personal level I believe this to be true. Do you agree or disagree? Do you think there are any other factors? Do you have a different hypothesis?

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Could you feel true love without feeling jealousy at all?

Friday 18 January 2008 @ 8:22 am
true love
qzmaster591 asked:


According to you and your personal experience, is ever possible love someone truly without feeling jealous for him/her? And if yes/no, gender has a role, or not?

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How would feel if you finally met your soul mate, and it turned out it was one of your opponents on YA?

Friday 11 January 2008 @ 1:45 pm
soul mate
Rollie H asked:


You find out you had insulted each other many times and reported each other’s answers. Would this change the wonderful reality of finding a soul mate?

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