Harlow35 asked:


We are in our 30′s and we have been together for almost 2 years, we do not live together. He is a hard worker, would always provide, accepts my son and I, rarely drinks, doesn’t smoke, is a good companion and would stand by my side through thick & thin but I am not in love with him, I do love him though.
This relationship has not been smooth because I am affectionate and expressive and he is not but he is getting better. He would never fight for the relationship so I am scared that if the marriage was suffering at any given time that he wouldn’t fight for that (even though he does not believe in divorce).
He is not much of a talker about anything and I feel the conversations between us fall flat, I am scared there is not enough of a mental connection there for the long haul. I find myself bored at times because of this.
I have heard many times that the passion wears off and you have to marry someone you like and have compatibilities with, is that true?

If you have married someone that you weren’t in love with I would like to hear your stories please.
Just a note-my sons father is very involved with him, we have a great parenting relationship. I own my own home and have a good job.

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Tamilan asked:


Hi I am a Malaysian Hindu. All this while my parents, relatives, friends and myself has been looking for a suitable girl for me. But in all cases, either our horoscope doesn’t match or we don’t get attracted.

Finally I was proposed this girl by a friend and found that the horoscope matches well. I liked the girl when I first met her and she too liked me. When I show the proposal to my parents, the first question the ask is abt the cast! My father rejected the proposal immediately as they “seems” lower cast than us.

I am staying with my parents and I want to give them the best. But I am dead against cast as all human being on this earth are same. No upper class or lower class. Only Good people and Bad people.

I always stress that I prefer to marry a so called “lower” cast girl with good attitude rather than a “high” class girl with bad attitude. I dont want to hurt my parents feelings and also don’t want to loose her. Even I am not in love with her for now, I dont think I can get the same type in our cast. My age too catching up.

Pls advice me in this matter. Thanks.

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upset1 asked:


I haven’t been happpy for long time with him and especially with his behavior towards money and women. I get tired of being treated like this and sometime I just want to walk out, but what about my kids? What should I do? We fight a lot and he told me he wanted the divorce but then when i was serious about it, he then apologized and asked me to stay, does he love me? I started to **** him and think he is a lozer!

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thinking aki asked:


answers from married people needed

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kidfree asked:


It takes a lot of time, energy, and money to raise a child. You have to divide your time between your child and spouse. You may end up neglecting your spouse due to the needs of your child. You or your spouse may have to work longer hours to pay the bills. How has having a child impacted your marriage?

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JamesMonroe asked:


Whats the point to love? Why is it important to be in a single and manogamous relationship? What is the difference between love, marriage and *** with beautiful people? What are challenges and solutions to marriage? Why does God as for only one? What, in your opinion is the keys to a sucessful partnership?

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Faith asked:


..it a success?

Reading some of the posts in this marriage and divorce section it is almost like some have rushed into love with marriage being apparent objective. Not a mere strategy that they will continuously work at to make it smooth, even it means using the unthinkable protocols like marriage counseling, doing activities to spice it up i.e. going on a mini vacation, treating each other to surprises, karma sutra classes etc.

So far having read the marriage and divorce section on some questions…what is your take to this?

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Soniya K asked:


He is 59 yrs and I am 31 yrs. He has introduced me to his family, three sons and his mom also.For past an year he told me he wanted to marry me when I question about divorce he says he has 101 things to be completed and he is lethargic .He travels abroad and has even planned his son’s wedding and goes places but is not keen on divorce

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NYC Sewers asked:


She is healthy and able to walk and get around but is about 65. I want to giver her many children and raise them up in Vancouver. We live in a fishing boat in Louisana and we catch aligators and light commercial fishing. She is cajun and speaks French like in Canada. What you think?

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superwoman asked:


I am now 17 years old, and i fell in love with a wonderful person at the ripe age of 15. It has been only two years since, and in about 5 months i will be preparing to leave for college. I know at this age life is supposed to be a growing period filled with new, and empowering experiences. Independence, maturity, and decisions that will effect my future forever are going to be knocking at my door step. However there is no one I’d rather spend my life with. I believe our love can last forever. Marriage is a giant decision. Am I too young to be able to experience, enjoy, and succeed in the adventurous world of marriage?

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