Steph asked:


I was with an awesome man for almost 2 years. We had everything in common. Attraction, love, respect & compatibility. He owns a house with about 2.5 acres. Together we had been working on it. It needs minor remodeling and a lot of landscaping. Everything we talked about was about “us”. We picked out house stuff together, made house choices together, everything was about the future. We ate lunch together everyday we could, talked on the phone. Spend the weekends together. I need to note that we live about an hour apart. So we did things to make it work. He never complained. If anything he said he likes things the way they were. He knew when we got involved that I could not move until my daughter graduated from high school in 2 years & he was ok with that. A week ago he ended it. Saying he wanted to be alone & he missed that. He is 43 & never been married or a long-term healthy relationship. Why if everything was so good would he walk away without ever giving me a clue
There is no other women. That I am 100% sure of. I can not move for another 2 years. The last two have flown. All of our time together he has shown nothing but love and care for me. I can see it in his eyes and how he treats me. His answer to talking about “us” was that he is so use to being alone he is missing it. He wants to go home and just be left alone. Which he does. We only see each other at lunch, which was his choice that he started doing. First it was one day then 2-3 and then everyday. We only spend the weekends together. Sometimes just a day and other times all weekend. He got me out fishing and I love it, he also got me to learn how to drive his tractor and learn to work it, which is a blast after I got over my fear of it. He also got me to learn how to use a chain saw…something else that is fun.
I just do not understand, if he wanted his “space” then why would he always wait until I came over to run arrends? I would suggest he go ahead & go take care of what he needed to & by the time I got to his place he would be back, but he said he preferred to wait. We also would go grocery shopping together, which he wanted to always wait so we could do it together. Or make comments that he loves doing things together, it is so much more fun. Also that he likes picking out things for the house or talking about how the yard should look? He would tell me on a regular basis how lucky he was to have me in his life. How much I spoil him, which he liked. Especially not having to do the cooking. Something I do like doing, but he would also ask if he could help & would help clean up the dishes…those are not the actions of someone that is not happy. You can not fake that for over 18 months. We love to tease each other and laugh. I would give him foot rubs & he liked scratch my back.

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Nat R asked:


so many marriages break up before the fifth anniversary. do you think that the divorce rate is so high because people are marrying for social status that boosts their ego rather than for true love and compatibility?
That is, is it a lust for superficial things that are valued by others in society, like looks, money and material things, that people are choosing to marry for initially, later to find out that those things don’t make marriage tolerable or healthy in the long-term?
I find that some people in my generation (i’m a 34 year-old australian) seek their real emotional support and empathy from their friendships and marry their spouse so they can have kids and a nice lifestyle. There is no reallyenduring, deep connection with their husband or wife. I find it really sad and discouraging.
When the going gets tough, they don’twant to bother to help their spouse – it’s an inconvenience in their picture perfect life.

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CHERI * asked:


I’m wondering what others think about my wanting to raise children again, after the age of 45. I have 2 wonderful children who are now in their 20′s, but my heart is aching to do this a second time with the right person. I know this would need to be with someone who’s heart also aches for this, surely not alone. . I would love to know what others think of this. Thanks so much for your thoughts.

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cherylnicole1 asked:


The man that I think I love, is also my childrens father. We have a three year old and my other son would have been 2 1/2 years old. We have been together on and off since high school. He has a girlfriend away at the college he used to attend. He says he thinks about us being back together, but he can´t seem to make up his mind. He asked me to give him until March 1st and he would make his decision. This has been like this for five years. I don´t know why I can´t move on. Is he my security blanket, do I have an obsession or is it True Love? I would do anything for this man as long as it does not put myself or my son in harms way? Please if anyone has an answer, share it with me!!!

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naresh i asked:


My family is hindu family. my culture is indian and i am staying in maharashtra. i have one sister and brother, both are depends on my income. but i have two houses in different cities. one is my village and one is in city (mumbai)

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Gentleman asked:


Use your brain …… not heart ……..
Men are very good in Love. They give a lot in love, women wants a lot to convince themselves.

In marriage women are good, they sweat their blood and work. Work work and do hardwork to retain the marriage. According to them Women are good in marriage as they are honest in marriage.

Men are more romantic as women are demanding only.

Don’t contradict me without enough points to prove your arguement.

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kebhayo asked:


I am born Aug 24, 1978 at 1:20 GMT and she is April 2, 1987 at 5:00 GMT, can you please tell me how well we can go. We have been attracted to each other but not yet confirmed we will live with each other becuase she has got BF who is abroad for one year and will not be back for two years. Should she wait for him or start new life with me. Please … we are both confused…… i love her so much.. .. how we will be together??
hi faith*n*more

Ya she said she is attracted to me and said she does not know what to do. Till she is stick with she cannot betray her BF becuase she told him to wait for him. We have been out for dates like no one could say we are not a couple, but inside there is lot of confusion. Sometime I feel like she wants to stay away from me. We have shared everything about our past, family, friends, habits, etc….. I love her sooo much .. I have never been desparate helpless like these days… I just love her. She know that i love her very much. I think she is afraid that if her BF is back, it will be hard to separate from me… please show me the way…..

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Myadi H asked:


please give gud and genune answers.

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mohammedabdulkalam asked:


There is so much in common and so much compatibility between the two people despite their age difference. The girl is in her early teens and the boy is in his very late teens.

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Nice Guy asked:


So my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months. I want to do something special for her. She lives in Ny and i live in Ct. Our parents disaprove our dating. What could i do for her? Or get her? I want it to be something special!
I am 13 years old.

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