Well asked:


I, as are most pinoys, are roman catholic. Catholics, as well as most other legitimate religions, believe that the major point of marriage is to raise a family.

If a married couple decides not to have children (excluding the infertile or the destitute, of course) what do you think their real reasons are? Why even bother getting married? Why not just live together?

Is it due to the fact that they consider marriage a temporary thing that works for now only and want to make sure they have “a way out” easily by not having children to fight over custody? Is it selfishness or the inability to give of oneself to raise a child? Or is it the unwillingness to allow your spouse to deflect attention from you to the child? Or something else?

Personally, I think only married people (with or without child) are really qualified to answer this question.
Sorry about that Pau
Dizzle and Buttgirl, I used to think like you guys too and shuddered at the thought of the awesome responsiblity of raising lil ones. But now, I consider it the absolute best thing we ever did. Parenthood feels like you transcended to another level of living and all of a sudden everything starts to immediately make sense about why we are here on this planet. It was not about me me me me us us us us –but it was about others.

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Homer asked:


In the American culture a man that marries a woman with young children will raise them as his own and in later years treat their children as his grandchildren. We typically dont make a distinction between “step” and “blood” in terms of children. My brother married a filipina from the Visayan region and she wants him to stop his contact with his grandson from a previous marriage because they are not related by blood. My brother has not been receptive to this request at all. Can someone tell me about the filipino culture with regards to this issue and do you think his new wife is incorrect in her interpretation. He thinks its an issue with her and not the culture.

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shysteepinoy01 asked:


Do women in the Philippines see a difference in dating an American born Filipino and someone born in the Phil? If so, what is the difference?

Are Filipino men born in the US and Philippines different in the way they act, carry themselves, date, dress, attitude, ect?

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shysteepinoy01 asked:


What do women in the Philippines think about dating an American born Filipino Men?

I’ve heard that women in the Philippines like American men but what about the ones that are Filipino. I think that they would like us because we are Americanized, but at the same time have the same cultural values. But is it difficult to relate to another Filipino who doesn’t even know how to speak tagalog?

I like the girls in the Philippines because of their natural beauty and how down to earth they are. Anyways, what do women in the Philippines think about dating an American born Filipino?

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shysteepinoy01 asked:


What do women in the Philippines think about dating an American born Filipino Men?

I’ve heard that women in the Philippines like American men but what about the ones that are Filipino. I think that they would like us because we are Americanized, but at the same time have the same cultural values. But is it difficult to relate to another Filipino who doesn’t even know how to speak tagalog?

Anyways, what do women in the Philippines think about dating an American born Filipino?

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moonlight lady asked:


During my teen years, I wasn’t allowed to go out with boys ALONE on a date till I was 16. Before that, group dates only – like with some other friends – both boys and girls.

What is it like nowadays? Or even if you’re not in the Phils., what are your thoughts about dating? What would be your rules, if any, for your children?

Thank you for your comments.

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annabelle p asked:


Isn’t the statement confusing? What can you say?

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Inday asked:


Is this definition acceptable???

“I yell at you
Because you’re always there
For me.
If I yelled at someone else
I’d have to yell a lot louder
Because you’re the closest
One to me there is
And I don’t want to
Strain my throat.

You are my true love….”

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