<3GaaraXGayna<3 asked:


OMG there’s this REALLY stuck-up little b**** at my school, right, and my boyfriend fancied her a TINY bit a year ago, now ok add this up and look at the compatibility:

B**** at my school: Gothic, rich, plays guitar, extremely intelligent, loves metal music, loves herself.

My boyfriend: Goth-rocker, sort of rich, plays bass guitar, pretty intelligent, loves metal/rock music, hates himself.

Me: Punk-rocker-emo, pretty rich, plays drumkit, very intelligent ((not as intelligent as b****face though)), loves rock/metal/punk/grunge music, can live with myself.

To make it worse, she’s REALLY pretty, and though my boyfriend says I’m hotter, maybe he just likes my personality more? Because my friends have heard her conversations and she’s all “I can do this…I can do that….Look at me” so basically yes she is really in love with herself, but my boyfriend likes her as a friend, but she always walks by him and that when I’m holding him. How do I tell her to p*** the f*** off??

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Adam S. asked:


In Westernized countries these days we tend to idealize love as a transcendental bond between two people.

Yet in some other countries, arranged marriages are the norm and even become desirable or ideal arrangements.

My thought or theory, if you will, is that love arises when it is expected. When two people who are expected to marry (i.e. arranged) and create a family, love arises between the two.

But when two people decide (of their own accord) to love and create a family, the love arises and maintains itself as long as the two see the existing alternatives to be worse than staying together.

Whether the initial binding is by their own choice (as in Westernized marriage) or by another’s (as in the former example), the love that may come of being is more a matter of commitment to the bond rather than the actual compatibility.

I suppose the question to you is: how immutable is the human spirit? To what extent are we susceptible to societal expectations about choice of one’s mate?
I’ve been “in love”… generally to the wrong people, which has ultimately been corrected…

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ANTM Love asked:


I was planning on moving to wichita kansas after i get my associates degree at a community college around home so that i could study marriage and family therapy. They have a program just for it. But my psychology teacher said that most therapists don’t go into psychology they go into social working? i think that’s what she said. Basically i want to know what I will need to do and what would be the best classes to take so that maybe i wont have to move to wichita and i can stay here and take classes and still work for the same thing.

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LoVeLy ToOtSiE asked:


I am currently i college Freshman with a soiciology degree but Im not sure if that can get me where i need to go for marriage counseling. What majordo i need?

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lilmissy asked:


I want to become a family/marriage counselor. I’m working on a bachelor of psychology now. I don’t have the time to become a licensed psychologist, I just want to work with hurting children and families.
I’ve heard some people say it takes hours (approx. 2000) of clinical work before you can become licensed.
How is it then that pastors have clergy licenses and are able to counsel people.
I’m wondering if it would be easier to get a theology degree and counsel through a church.
Any suggestions?

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Ilya S asked:


This topic is full of contridiction in our society. On one hand people think that they should get married to have children and while there are certain tax benefits to this, there are also marriage penalties. Our “relationship experts” also go against this reasoning and say that you should be happy in a marriage and should not get married just for the sake of the children. Our society also says that we should get married to gain from another what we lack, but we are also socially taught to be strong self individuals. Religion says that you should get married as man and woman, but come death or judgement day and your soul is alone and is not judged based on the performance of your spouce. Where do you stand on all 3 aspects (financial, social, and religious) of this major contridiction and what does your stance say about our society?
I completely forgot love. Love is another major reason/contridiction in our society. For most relationships love fades, some stay together, but more then 50% in the US go their own way.

NOTE: I am not pressing my opinion one way or another. I simply want to know what you think based on your life experience.

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Hot_Woman asked:


I ask this because when you are afraid you get the same symptoms as you do when you love someone. Sweaty palms, racing heart, etc…

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noms asked:


Love Traingle.
Well nothing gets personal when you are in this angle of life the ups and downs the rising tensions and all the lies. Life starts rottening .

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Adrienne F asked:


Ok so i just graduated from North Carolina Central Univ. with a bchelors in business administration. Now i’ve decided that i would like to be a child psychologist, family psychologist, or marriage counselor. What are my options as far as majors in undergrad? Someone told me i could major in family and consumer sciences then go to grad school for psychology. Anything else? Besides a straight psychlogy major?

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skycat asked:


I am sure you hear the term “unconditional” love, but what does it mean? How do we as humans apply 100% love in an unconditional way? How is love not unconditional? What conditions do humans put on love? Is unconditional love a practical teaching?

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