Do you know anyone who wants to wait until marriage to have *** and its not for religious reasons?
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I want to wait until marriage and I am not AT ALL religious. Being from NYC, I grew up in a very liberal area where very few people wait. (sometimes I wonder why I am so weird). Ever since I first learned about sex, having *** w/ your husband or someone that you feel you love and is for an extended period of time your partner seemed the most logical. After middle school, high school, college, and learning all sorts of new things, I still feel that way.
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I want to wait until marriage and I am not AT ALL religious. Being from NYC, I grew up in a very liberal area where very few people wait. (sometimes I wonder why I am so weird). Ever since I first learned about sex, having *** w/ your husband or someone that you feel you love and is for an extended period of time your partner seemed the most logical. After middle school, high school, college, and learning all sorts of new things, I still feel that way.
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September 24th, 2008 at 9:08 pm
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No I don’t…at least none who are not religious.
September 27th, 2008 at 9:15 am
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I am 13 and not very religious. I plan on waiting until marriage to have ***. I just think it should be special, and you should do it with somebody you really care about.
And also, because of everything that could happen. I am not letting myself get a disease or getting pregnant in my teenage years and ruining my life.
September 30th, 2008 at 7:51 am
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Well i am not religous either but i actually belive in giving my virginty to someone i love not someone whos not going to be with me for the rest of my life.I’m pretty much waiting to lose it to someone im going to be with for the rest of my life.So that makes me still a virgin and im waiting for the right person to come along that’s pretty much what i belive in!
October 2nd, 2008 at 12:13 pm
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i follow a straight edge lifestyle, and part of that is no casual ***. I dont think you have to wait until marriage, but i only have *** with someone that ive been with for year, year and a half, or longer. Like, i dont think im ready for a marriage quite yet, but ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and we have had ***.
It all depends on yours and the other persons feelings for each other, and your maturity level on the subject
Oh, and im not religious at all.
October 3rd, 2008 at 10:37 pm
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More and more people are waiting until marriage to have ***. It is a very honorable thing to do not to mention its safety. I think it is a wonderful thing. It’s the time when you should have *** and with the person who is your life partner. It’s one thing you can offer your husband that he has to share with no one. I salute you and hold your decision in its highest regards.
October 4th, 2008 at 6:39 am
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yes, i waited because of my best friend´s bad expirence and the bad expirences of other girls
October 5th, 2008 at 6:59 pm
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Me. I believe in God, but I don’t believe in Religions..(They aren’t the same) but that’s besides the point. I’m not doing it because I believe in God. I’m doing it because I don’t want pay child support and have my life ruined while she has the chance to get rich off of my work.
Fck that.
October 6th, 2008 at 1:23 am
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sweethart… ur doing the right thing waiting… it dosent have to be for religon… it jus means u respect urself… an who wants to take the chance of getting pregnant or catching an std??? ur a real smart girl who cares bout her future… an who respects herself an her future husband…
ive chosen to stop having premarital *** to… an tho my return to god helped me make the choice… religon is only 1 of my reasons… mostly its cuz i lerned to respect myself now an not let guys use me anymore… keep up the good work..
October 8th, 2008 at 10:32 am
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I have so much respect for you. The odds of people to have a good relationship with somebody after having *** is very low.
Ussually it’s wam bam thank you mam. I asked a guy that had 2 women pregnant at the same time if he felt any responsiblity towards these women or kids and he said no, they should have kept their legs closed.
Have respect for yourself. Don’t let anybody make you feel bad for waiting. Hopefully,you will be able to find a man that is a virgin so the two of you can start and learn everything together.
Think about it.
No STD’s to worry about.
No pregancy to worry about until you marry.
No feeling of shame about if you should have waited.
No fatherless children to take care of.
No feelings of being used for *** by anyone and regretting it after he dumps you for another woman to have *** with.
Are you getting the picture?
I would be interested in knowing who got you thinking you may be doing wrong. Is it a guy that wants to get *** from you? Is it a girl who doesn’t want to feel alone because she is doing it and regretting it so she wants somebody else to join the “I regret” club.
You are not weird. Take a look back and think about the problems these other people are going through. Now realize that you DO NOT have these same problems.
Most of all. The best wedding gift you can give your husband is your virginty on your wedding night. Hopefully, that will be his gift for you. Just think about what the two of you can learn from each other through the wonders of experimenting with each others bodys. Plus, you will not be thinking about other guys you did it with or girls he did it with. OR what STD’s you guys might be giving each other from prior *** partners.
Hold your ground. Wait for that wedding night. Be at peace with your life. I guarantee other women in this world wished they had waited.
GOLD DIGGER: I am proud of you.
October 10th, 2008 at 12:19 pm
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No, I don’t know anyone personally who has that same view.
But that’s what makes the world a great place, isn’t it? Everyone’s different.
If it works for you, good luck to you!
Cheers
October 11th, 2008 at 6:07 am
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Nobody I know seems interested in waiting, but we would all be interested in losing it to someone with whom we have a decent relationship.
October 11th, 2008 at 6:06 pm
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yes i want to do *** with my wife and i dont belive in religion