Have you “settled for “or have you finally found your true love, your “soul mate”?
Soundproof ((Debra RIP))+ Frenzy asked:
Who wants someone JUST to warm the seat beside them?
Would anyone do to fight off the loneliness?
Who wants someone JUST to warm the seat beside them?
Would anyone do to fight off the loneliness?
I do not believe nor am I seeking this for myself what so ever, I am merely asking what YOU think about it and have done.
Are you happy with your decision?
Thank you for your answers. 
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August 3rd, 2008 at 10:30 pm
i settled my first 2 marriages-
now I can not even find anyone to go out with- lol
I am not sorry that either marriage ended in divorce
August 4th, 2008 at 4:03 am
i settled at 34 and had a few kids thinking there was no such thing as a soulmate. but now i am waiting for my soulmate and am sorry i settled… except i ended up with two amazing kids, so maybe it all happened for a reason.
August 4th, 2008 at 7:12 am
there are no soulmates…we make our “reality” what it is!
August 5th, 2008 at 9:05 pm
somehow i am happy.
August 7th, 2008 at 6:10 am
Personally I have been trying not to “settle”. I have been with a girl for awhile and was wondering what is wrong with me, why can I not commit?
A recent episode with another made me realize what it was I am missing. This other has not panned out into anything (yet?) so I am trying to decide whether to call it off with the long-tine girl or accept that I may have to “settle” for what I can get.
It is all about finding happiness and the decision is whether I can be happy or should I continue to search… I do not want to end up lonely, so sometimes I think it would not be so bad to “settle”.
There is alot more to this than I put here, but the bottom line for me is finding happiness and being satisfied with the person in all things… and I might not be.
Have not come to a decision yet. My situation is quite complex.. some things are good about the other, some things not.
August 8th, 2008 at 4:24 pm
Another of my amazing stories.
I met my wife when I was 15/16. I asked her out and she said no. She would have been my first girlfriend since kindergarten. 13 Years later I asked again. we married 6 months later. I had one girlfriend in between. Many friends just not …you know.
The story has more bits and pieces but basically I KNOW this is the only woman for me.
August 11th, 2008 at 12:30 pm
the love i have now is the one i’ve been married to for 30 years. i would not exchange her for anyone else in the world she is my soul mate my true love the one i want to spend eternity with. i am the most fortunate of men.
August 14th, 2008 at 2:02 am
yes,
rt(:
i have found my soul mate, more precise she found me.
My life now is laden with her temperatures of care
and the it-ness i feel being at one with her loving me,
no longer am i aimless with crowding confusions,
she has replenished my life with harmonious devotion,
i feel more alive than at any other time in my life, she
has given me purpose and has transcended my emotions
with such oceanic mystical sensations of her love,
my baby love is my fruit to sweeten my struggles and merge
her essence with mine so we both become one whole
of natures patterns enticing each others passions to feel
wanted and loved,
yes,
i have found my only true soul mate, and i love her
August 15th, 2008 at 9:33 pm
I feel that I have found my soulmate after one marriage a number of steady girlfreinds and 40 years of searching. She is special, a tough cookie and a lover. I have had experience with loneliness and its no fun. I am sure this is going to work out and I have made the correct decision.
August 16th, 2008 at 9:49 am
i think this question makes me sick…nothing against you though. yes, I’m bitter, that’s how i feel.
August 18th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
I think I settled my first marriage.
MY second marriage evolved from my best friend becoming my greatest love- and he is still so. I don’t believe I have settled at all.
IF I weren’t happy, I wouldn’t be married.
August 19th, 2008 at 7:14 am
As I don’t believe in “soulmates”, I wouldn’t say I just settled. I waited until I was 30 to get married, found myself a very good man whom I love and I’m happy.
August 22nd, 2008 at 12:24 am
I don’t believe that it’s fair to myself or the other person to simply “settle” with them.
I have the love of my life and my soul mate;
and all the feelings….
the rightness….just [ALL] of it,
proves that it’s worth waiting for ?
++ yes, I’m very happy with it….
we’re spending forever together;
not because we’re perfect
or what we have is perfect….
but because we’re in love
and it’s perfect *for us*.
Blessed be.
August 23rd, 2008 at 2:10 am
I “settled” on the love of my life 25 years ago at a beach party, we married two years later, then started having kids after we both graduated and started making money, I sure like to look at pretty women, but I have never been tempted in the least to go astray…my wife would f’n kill me….
August 26th, 2008 at 5:22 am
I have been Married to My wonderful Wife for 16 Years
She helped me to fight My way out of the darkness after I came back from Iraq. I owe her everything and I love Her more than words could ever say.
Yes, i know I made the right choice
August 29th, 2008 at 12:53 pm
in brief…
“Lol I married her about 25 years back and since then sehhas been the best friend I ever had.”
August 30th, 2008 at 10:34 pm
I’m still looking…
But I do believe that everyone has a soulmate out there somewhere – the ‘one’ for us.
Some lucky people get to meet more than one in their lifetime, and there are ‘passing through’ soulmates – people who are meant to help us at a certain point in our life journey.
August 31st, 2008 at 9:25 pm
I would never settle. It broke my heart to leave my first husband, but it just wasn’t right in so many ways. For me to have a chance at happiness, I knew I had to leave.
Second husband – SOOO much better. I love him to pieces (and he puts up with me, too – lol). Seriously, tho, it’s a match made in Heaven (and I’m an atheist).
16 years married this May.
September 1st, 2008 at 7:57 am
I have seen so many good people settle that I know there are only a certain number of us who actually are holding out for our true soul mate.