How do I know if I have found my soul-mate in life?
The Doctor asked:
Is there any way of really knowing if you have found your soul-mate? I know there is love and true love but I don’t know whether the person I am in love with is my soul-mate or not … anyone with guidance here?
I just feel … happy when I’m around them. I keep getting fluttery feelings in my chest when I look into their eyes and I love the sound of his voice so much ..
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Is there any way of really knowing if you have found your soul-mate? I know there is love and true love but I don’t know whether the person I am in love with is my soul-mate or not … anyone with guidance here?
I just feel … happy when I’m around them. I keep getting fluttery feelings in my chest when I look into their eyes and I love the sound of his voice so much ..
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June 1st, 2008 at 12:35 am
when you stop having doubts
June 1st, 2008 at 10:07 am
If he does’nt kick your a s s when you fart in bed, he is your soulmate.
June 2nd, 2008 at 10:19 pm
if you need to ask, then he/she is not the one. you will know
June 5th, 2008 at 5:55 am
If you have to ask you than you haven’t found him or her, I don’t want to judge, lol
June 10th, 2008 at 4:05 am
You haven’t because there’s no such thing….
June 10th, 2008 at 10:10 am
nobody can be sure about it; they just believe it to be
June 12th, 2008 at 7:57 am
That fluttery thing is being young & infatuated. No such thing as a soulmate. Stick with the guys who make you “fluttery” for now. Enjoy your youth. When it comes time for a permanent partner find one who is kind & makes you laugh.
June 13th, 2008 at 4:36 am
Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Would you stay with him if he got really sick? Would you stay with him if he had some weird problem like an addiction? Do you care enough to understand his feelings and empathise with them. Does he share all those emotions. Then maybe. But I doubt it. You probably haven’t known him long enough. Would you trust him with a secret you’d never tell another soul? One of my friends has a recurring dream – that she can’t find my phone number – it’s because I’m the one she calls when she’s in trouble – that’s trust – and a basis of a friendship. You have to have that sort of friendship before an even deeper relationship.
June 15th, 2008 at 4:51 pm
there is no such thing as some magical “soul-mate” that is just in movies and books. Ask anyone who has been in a long term relationship. They will ALL have their ups and downs. And the infatuation feeling at the beginning will wear off. But if you pick a person who will treat you nice and has similar goals and morrals, you will build a deep strong relationship together. which is much more fulfiling thatn infatuation anyway. good luck
June 17th, 2008 at 4:34 pm
GET REAL… A REAL SOULMATE? With the Billions of humans on this earth….. you think you could find “THE ONLY ONE, BORN JUST FOR YOU”? You are dreaming wishfully!….. Granted you may find a perfect and totally compatible person to share your life with…. (IF you are LUCKY)…
To do that is difficult at best…