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How important is physical intimacy in a marriage?

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I’m interested in opinions concerning the importance of physical intimacy in a marriage.

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22 Responses to “How important is physical intimacy in a marriage?”

  1. Z's Girl Says:

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    I would say it is VERY important and will bring the two even closer together every time they get intimate together and make love….

  2. DILLON Says:

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    Extremely important.

  3. enki90 Says:

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    It is important but it shouldn’t be the sole component of the relationship. There will be times when you actually get out of bed and have to do all sorts of mundane stuff.

    While intimacy is important, communication is even more important.

  4. Jessica C Says:

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    I think that sex is somewhat important in a marriage. But not the most important thing. I think if you still that the spark, of loving each other. Holding each other at night, holding hands, and still kissing. That is just as good in some cases.

    I agree with the woman above me. Communication is the most important thing in a relationship.

  5. Matt H Says:

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    VERY Important.

    Sex is a natural part of life, it should be celebrated instead of frowned upon.

  6. mrs Says:

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    very

  7. jersey red neck Says:

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    One word
    Very.
    people dont get married to have room mate.

  8. amlove Says:

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    It is not THE most important thing (especially as you get older,) but it is very important.

  9. Marta L Says:

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    100%

    And all of the above answers are just kidding orrrrrrrrr Viagra will be out of business…LMAO if you wanted a pet you should have stayed home………………LMAO

  10. Michael T Says:

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    It is very important, at least to me. Even though I intellectually know better, I feel like she doesn’t love me if we aren’t physically intimate.

  11. r b Says:

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    it is necessary to some degree, but all situations are not the same and what various people can settle for is different.

  12. jaylen's mom Says:

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    very important!!!! especially for the guy. do you know physically that a guy literally can not perform good anywhere without sex? especially in a marriage. they need that release

    Ladies usually are like, i’m not having sex with you until we figure this out. but in actuality if you sex them up they are more likely to think clearly

  13. hammerjustice01 Says:

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    It is totally one of the most important…. not the most important but in the top five. When you got married you took a oat to forsake all others… you and him are all that matters.. you need him to take care of all of your needs, mental, physical… all of it… If one person is not satisfied the couple will not be happy… the person not satisfied will resent the other one and eventually stray…. spice it up and do something freaky!!!!

  14. Sandy Ego Says:

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    As important as the two people deem it to be.

  15. Cassie Says:

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    It’s going to vary from person to person and in different situations. Personally I think it is fairly important in any relationship, not just marriage. But there are going to be other things that may be more important sometimes and that is ok.

  16. IndyGirl Says:

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    VERY (x 1,000,000)

    So is being in decent physical shape in order to be physically intimate… don’t think it isn’t, either!!

    EDIT:
    Oh pooh ~~ it’s true. Ask anyone who has ever cheated. Ask anyone with an overweight partner. Some of you just don’t like to hear it; too bad!!!

  17. SoccerMom4 Says:

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    Very important, if one partner is distant in that department~ it leads to all kinds of problems and questions.

  18. godf1rst Says:

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    There’s an old saying that goes something like when it’s good it makes up about 10% if the marriage but when it’s bad it creates 90% of the problems in the marriage. I think it’s important as it is a way you physically show each other love. God Bless.

  19. S K Duncan Says:

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    Our closets primate relatives, the Bonobo Chimpanzee, are extremely intimate. They spend hours petting, grooming and hugging each other.

    We are not very much different from them. Our advanced civilization and sometimes repressive religious practices tends to disregard, ignore or out right ban these important necessities of humanity. Yet we must have them in order to feel balanced, psychologically fit and emotionally sound.

    As humans evolved they created the institution of marriage. That institution may have also brought about the decline of physical intimacy. Since the excuse is, “we’re married, why do we have to touch, kiss and hug anymore.”

    We are still like our primate relatives, and they seem to engage in intimacy much more than us. It is a tragedy, since if we are to survive we must remember that intimacy is how we got here. And how we will get to the future.

  20. Louis XIV Says:

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    Intimacy is crucial. Physical intimacy is a big part of it, but not all of it.

  21. Brent Says:

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    It is always most important to the one who isn’t on the receiving end of the intimacy.

  22. Medusssa Says:

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    My opinion…? Very important. When there’s trouble brewing in a marriage, a decrease in intimacy is always the first thing to be affected.

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