little miss sunshine* asked:
So like all dads, my dad tells me if I ever start dating he’s going to kill my boyfriend and then me. Well, I really like this guy and I know he likes me, too. I have the feeling he’s going to ask me out soon. How can I tell my dad about this without him killing me?
So like all dads, my dad tells me if I ever start dating he’s going to kill my boyfriend and then me. Well, I really like this guy and I know he likes me, too. I have the feeling he’s going to ask me out soon. How can I tell my dad about this without him killing me?
By the way, I’m 15.
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either tell him ur ready if u think he’ll understand and if not then just don’t tell him, and always say ur going on a group movie date thing and then just go with him, its not that hard, but don’t get caught, or u could tell ur mom first if she’s okay with it
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Keep nagging, he’ll break eventually.
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Dont tell your dad tell your mom. And tell her you like a guy and he likes you too and ask her if you can go out with him.
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Well your dad *****. my mom says not to get anyone pregnant and thats that. I suggest you bring a boy home, **** him in front of your parents, and then see what happens
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well idk but tell your dat to go over and meat your dad and make a good impression but not to try to hard
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If you think your mature enough then you should be able to date. I didn’t let my daughter date until she was 16.
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Ask your dad if you can go hang out with your friends, and invite him. Or, when he asks you out, see if you can make it a group date.
This will relieve the pressure and awkwardness of a first date, PLUS your dad won’t mind so much.
Just tell him that you really like this guy and were wondering if you could invite him to hang out with you and a few friends in a group to get to know him a little better. Once he’s cool with this, he should soften up and let you two go out alone.
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My friend have a really strict dad. Do what she does. She always jokes around with her dad about guys like when she sees a “hot” guy she tells him he’s hot but never does anything…eventually he began to trust her and doesn’t really think to much about his daughter and guys. Just try to do something to trust you and i think you should talk to him b honest…i’m sure your dad will understand
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well as most dads he will get used to the fact you are growing up just gradually bring it up tell him how u like the biy and that he is sooo sweet and stuff he will be prtective for a while and then he will move on !!! and get over it my dad is the same way and i am older than u lol ! he still threatens to kill my boyfriend ! but just make sure ur not dumb like me and my boyfriend and get caught kissin lol
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Prove to him that you deserve it
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haha funny im in the same situation but i just asked him. i eased in the conversation and said um dad i wanted to know if i could go on a date with so and so at wherever? and then invite the guy over let them talk have your dad approve and then it should be okay . . . if you can get your mom to approve of you dating it will be a piece of cake :]
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dont, tell ur mom
y ur dad?
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well im 17 and i say get on his good side, or sneak it
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NEVER happen i feel bad for him, I DO not want a daughter for this reason too cute when young, to $lutty when old, and too interested in $ as adults and at that point women disgust nicky, NOT THAT HE WOUDLN’T *** A FEW?! dont get the wrong idea, i appreciate it.
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You dad is just looking out for your best interest. He doesn’t want to see you give up your virginity to some little d-bag who is just gonna use you and then dump you. IF the guy you like is really worth anything, then your dad will see it and accept him. If not, then just wait till your 18, dating isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.
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He will understand eventually, he’s probably got an age in mind when he thinks its ok. Maybe you could ask him when he thinks you will be old enough? Remember, you are an individual so you could just keep it quiet. Maybe you could organise a get together at your house with a few friend including the guy, then he could be super nice to your Dad, and if you think your Dad likes him, then tell him…
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Wow. 15? It’s time to tell Daddy that your a maturing young lady and you are having strong feelings for someone. Prove to him that you will be mature with him, because after all; dad’s think every boy wants the same thing: ***. You better hope the guy you like is a good boy, because after you tell him, he’ll be keeping a good eye on his profile. Tell him that you really care for this guy, and have him meet him.
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he wont kill you he just saying that cuz he is scared that you are growing up but you are so show him that you are if he ask you out say yes and then tell you dad that you got a boyfriend and then he will know that you r growing up cuz you went said that you got a boyfriend and you got to say it with filling
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First of all show your dad that you are responsible and can be fully trusted! If talking to him calmly the first time does not work, don’t get too upset and let your emotions go crazy. He will see you as immature. Wait for another time to approach him about the subject again. If he would feel better have him meet the boy ahead of time or hang out in a group at first.
Your dad will eventually get over it and accept that you’re growing up! Good luck!
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Make sure your dad meets him. I know it sounds weird but invite him and more friends over to your house for a group date or even just a party. Your dad will be able to get to know him and your friends. He will like that you involved him in your life.
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your dad can’t kill anyone. Don’t be afraid of him. But respect and follow his good advise. There are better things to achieve rather than waste your precious time on this earth thinking and worrying about how to go about dating and sleeping with a guy, who will always be there for his sexual gratification! Just listen to your old good friend, the dad. Remember he is the only one who is truly yours!!!……………
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hahha i had the same problem..i was told i couldnt date till i was 18..lol..
heres how you do it
now every daddy is protective of his little grl….what you do is tell your dad slowly about him…sit him down and tell him you want to talk to just him alone about something very serious…..when he sits down with you…you simply explain that you like this kid in school…and he likes you…and youll let your dad meet him if hee wants…but you would really like to start dating him…and oyu want his ok…
he most likely will relize that your mature enough to come to him with something so important to you….
and if you have to…throw in that you think that your mature enough to make good decisions..and that you wont let anyone take advantage of you………
also…what i did…was just be honest with my parents….when they asked if me and bf were having ***…after dating for a year..i just told them that i love him…and i took the time to relize thathe didnt just want me for me..and he really cared about me…then i added *** to the relationship….
now my parents see me and my bf as a very successful couple..weve ben togther for a year and a half… XD
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im 15 bout to be 16 and the previous rule was no dating till im 18 but me and my dad negotiated and this is the rules:
you cant help who u like or love! i’ve currently just found the love of my life and my parents love him just tell ur dad that u feel ur ready to date and do what i did and set limits
he has to meet and get to know the guy very well and for a while which is like at the least a month of me and the boy dating for me to go somewhere by my self with him
and dont worry bout ur dad “killing” you he’s probably to scared to see u grow up
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I know your dilemma! The way I got my dad’s approval was:
1st Do something for him that he will appreciate (was his car…something you don’t normally do)
2nd show that you are trustworthy and that you respect him (doing what he says without arguing)
3rd take him out for dinner or ice cream and discuss the matter. Listen to what he has to say, and then talk about how you feel.
Parents need time for them to get used to the fact that their little ones are growing up, and I’m sure your dad won’t “kill you” if you discuss the matter with him in a calm and mature matter. Another thing is if he says no, it’s not because he doesn’t trust you, but he doesn’t trust the boy. If the case is no try letting your dad get to know who the boy is, then retry asking him a week or two later.
Another thing parents are always a little more lenient when you are going in a group of friends. So my advice to you is to do steps 1, 2, and 3, and then go with the guy and your friends to the movies. Plus, in order to have to a good relationship with this boy, you have to be friends first.
By the way i’m 15 too.