Comments on: How true are the myths of love? http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/ Sharing love and relationship compatibility experiences, ideas and hopes. Tue, 10 Aug 2010 23:22:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: SnapDragon73 http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-3522 SnapDragon73 Wed, 25 Jun 2008 18:37:09 +0000 http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/#comment-3522 1. If the two people "truly" are in love with each other then yes I believe the bond and commitment they share can conquer all.. but if the love isn't true.. then it will be like the proverbial sandcastle... as the waves of the world beat at it... it will dissolve. 2. No it never dies... I think your perspective on it changes... you see it for what it was... your first experience with the most dangerous emotion a person possess. 3. Yes.. they do.. but unless there is a very strong base of love and commitment between the two.. eventually the differences that brought you together tear you apart (speaking from experience on this one) 4. Yes it does... if the love is real... distance is a good way of truly seeing your feelings without the "glow" of your relationship blinding your vision. You will quickly realize if it was just infatuation, lust or if there was any truth and substance to your feelings for that person. These aren't myths... they are questions we all ask ourselves at one time or another based on where we are in our lives and relationships. But speaking for myself.. they have all been very much real. 1. If the two people “truly” are in love with each other then yes I believe the bond and commitment they share can conquer all.. but if the love isn’t true.. then it will be like the proverbial sandcastle… as the waves of the world beat at it… it will dissolve.

2. No it never dies… I think your perspective on it changes… you see it for what it was… your first experience with the most dangerous emotion a person possess.

3. Yes.. they do.. but unless there is a very strong base of love and commitment between the two.. eventually the differences that brought you together tear you apart (speaking from experience on this one)

4. Yes it does… if the love is real… distance is a good way of truly seeing your feelings without the “glow” of your relationship blinding your vision. You will quickly realize if it was just infatuation, lust or if there was any truth and substance to your feelings for that person.

These aren’t myths… they are questions we all ask ourselves at one time or another based on where we are in our lives and relationships. But speaking for myself.. they have all been very much real.

]]> By: sims II http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-3521 sims II Mon, 23 Jun 2008 04:44:32 +0000 http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/#comment-3521 The wording of your question, especially the word 'myth' makes me feel that you are an unbeliever.... unless you have trully loved and had that love returned, then all the phrases are myths, but if you have loved, bellieve you me, these are not myths, they are the gospel truth. The least I can say is "I trully wish you love" The wording of your question, especially the word ‘myth’ makes me feel that you are an unbeliever…. unless you have trully loved and had that love returned, then all the phrases are myths, but if you have loved, bellieve you me, these are not myths, they are the gospel truth. The least I can say is “I trully wish you love”

]]> By: blue_duck http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-3520 blue_duck Sun, 22 Jun 2008 00:40:33 +0000 http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/#comment-3520 1. it's only true if you work at it. some people like to think that by just being in love, things will go their way. but in reality, if people who say they're in love don't work on their relationships, then their relationships will just fall apart. this is especially true when hard times come. love alone can't fix their problems. people have to take action to save their relationships. 2. this is sort of true. first love never dies because it's the one we remember the most: the first kiss, the uncertainty of what happens on a first date, and so on. 3. this too is also sort of true. some opposites do attract one another, but there has to be some traits, values, etc. about them that they have in common. sort of like me and my boyfriend. we both have the same interests and values. but i'm very quick temper. so his relaxed personality helps me to calm down. so basically, people can be different but they have to have some common grounds other wise it just won't work. 4. here's two scenario for this case. first scenario is that a couple is really in love with one another and wants their relationship to work. so when they are apart, they miss each other even more and can't wait to see each other again. the other scenario is that a couple loves each other (but not enough to make sure their relationship works). so after a long time away/apart, one of them gets lonely and starts to have wandering eyes thinking that it would be much easier to be with someone who's just a few minutes drive away. hope this answers your questions. 1. it’s only true if you work at it. some people like to think that by just being in love, things will go their way. but in reality, if people who say they’re in love don’t work on their relationships, then their relationships will just fall apart. this is especially true when hard times come. love alone can’t fix their problems. people have to take action to save their relationships.

2. this is sort of true. first love never dies because it’s the one we remember the most: the first kiss, the uncertainty of what happens on a first date, and so on.

3. this too is also sort of true. some opposites do attract one another, but there has to be some traits, values, etc. about them that they have in common. sort of like me and my boyfriend. we both have the same interests and values. but i’m very quick temper. so his relaxed personality helps me to calm down. so basically, people can be different but they have to have some common grounds other wise it just won’t work.

4. here’s two scenario for this case. first scenario is that a couple is really in love with one another and wants their relationship to work. so when they are apart, they miss each other even more and can’t wait to see each other again. the other scenario is that a couple loves each other (but not enough to make sure their relationship works). so after a long time away/apart, one of them gets lonely and starts to have wandering eyes thinking that it would be much easier to be with someone who’s just a few minutes drive away.

hope this answers your questions.

]]> By: Immortal Rebel http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-3519 Immortal Rebel Thu, 19 Jun 2008 08:48:15 +0000 http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/#comment-3519 All Are true and all are just bla bla bla. it all depends on two diffrent human beings and their nature. as no two human nature are the same so the love between them, and the way they look at the love as whole. All Are true and all are just bla bla bla. it all depends on two diffrent human beings and their nature. as no two human nature are the same so the love between them, and the way they look at the love as whole.

]]> By: cinnamonmiss http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-3518 cinnamonmiss Sun, 15 Jun 2008 22:19:35 +0000 http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/#comment-3518 None of your four statements are true anyway. Love isn't true. There's no true love. the right thing is that true people create true love NOT true love creates people. No need to be pessimistic but that's just the way it is. None of your four statements are true anyway. Love isn’t true. There’s no true love. the right thing is that true people create true love NOT true love creates people.
No need to be pessimistic but that’s just the way it is.

]]> By: Ash C http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-3517 Ash C Sun, 15 Jun 2008 21:28:47 +0000 http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/#comment-3517 Love is a simply a state of mind. Either u'r blindly in it..or cleaverly out of it. It sucks for the most part. Your really only in it because u like that feelings of "being wit some1" and u can't stand being alone. there's a bunch of other reasons..but tht tops it. Love is a simply a state of mind. Either u’r blindly in it..or cleaverly out of it. It sucks for the most part. Your really only in it because u like that feelings of “being wit some1″ and u can’t stand being alone. there’s a bunch of other reasons..but tht tops it.

]]> By: Woot M http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-3516 Woot M Sat, 14 Jun 2008 20:04:13 +0000 http://perfectlovecompatibility.com/how-true-are-the-myths-of-love/#comment-3516 Well here are my answers 1. In your mind, yes, love conquers all. It motivates you to do things that you don't ordinarily do. Physically, no. That's impossible. If it did, then we'd all be happy and Mr. Bush would be having babies with Middle Easterners. 2. It depends on how much you were in love with your first. But I do think that it does die. I practically forgot about my 1st. 3. Yes and no. True for some, false for others. It's true in my case though. 4. Yeah. For odd reasons when you spend time away you think of your partner and kaboom. Well here are my answers

1. In your mind, yes, love conquers all. It motivates you to do things that you don’t ordinarily do. Physically, no. That’s impossible. If it did, then we’d all be happy and Mr. Bush would be having babies with Middle Easterners.

2. It depends on how much you were in love with your first. But I do think that it does die. I practically forgot about my 1st.

3. Yes and no. True for some, false for others. It’s true in my case though.

4. Yeah. For odd reasons when you spend time away you think of your partner and kaboom.

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