im a male virgin in my twenties i want to know that the best way to start dating and having *** ?

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im a 22 college student who overweight and yes i virgin still. i want to start dating and experience and explore its wonders with women. i am not a virgin because of any moral or religion reason it just never happen. i need SOME advice on if i should focus on my appearance first or just jump right into it? i feel that my weight has been a issues with the ladies. im 285, 6feet to give you a mental pic.

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13 Responses to 'im a male virgin in my twenties i want to know that the best way to start dating and having *** ?'

Lewis J - May 21st, 2009 at 12:55 pm
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If you’re a college student just hit a few parties, and don’t be too forceful. If you’re funny or charming or have any redeeming qualities (and everyone does) someone will pick up on it. Drunk *** is still *** lol. Just make sure they’re sober enough to still know what they’re doing.

Appearance-wise, I’d just say get some good looking, but comfortable enough clothes. If you’re anxious about your weight, wear a slogan tee shirt under an open, short sleeve shirt (not TOO formal, though, and preferably still interesting) and some darker jeans.

Like I said, if you went to one party a week, by the end of the month you’d have a lot more confidence and therefore a lot more chances. If you have any like-minded friends, get them into your nearest town for a night out.
Poppy - May 23rd, 2009 at 7:02 am
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You are large for sure. Get yourself into shape. It will help your ego. Get out there and meet the ladies. Learn to talk with them. With some practice you can talk the pants right off of them.
cutie pie - May 26th, 2009 at 2:00 am
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you want to know the best way to start having ***…oh my gosh…where have your morals gone…
M$ L@LL!P@P - May 28th, 2009 at 2:50 am
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y on earth would u want to get unvirginalized I don’t know…you’ve held strong this time and no i don’t think its kuza ur weight kuz I luv big men! I think u should maintain ur virginal-ism.
Coronaa! - May 31st, 2009 at 3:58 am
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Yes girls do look at weight.But also at other things,..
I look at guy’s hands, see if there nice and eyes.
But go start signing on websites and get out there.
LadyRee - June 1st, 2009 at 6:04 pm
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I’m so proud of you!
Just continue to do what your doing and find a nice respectful woman who haven’t slept around her self. Or you waited this long, just wait a bit longer until your married.
I wish you were my son, your parents, family and your self did a wonderful job with you
I Love how you love yourself!!
trina l - June 3rd, 2009 at 12:11 pm
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when i met my boyfriend, he had already been with one other girl, and i was a virgin, he told me he completely regretted it, b/c there was no love or feelings involved. and losing mine was hard b/c i felt like we should be sharing ours together. the media and movies make it seem like its sooo uncool to wait to have sex, but when your in a relationship and you actually fall in love with someone….the numbers of people youve been with end up hurting you. dont waste it just b/c you want to experiment. b/c i promise you you wont be amazed. when you fall in love and you know shes the one…..it feels like the world is spinning around you. alot of people cry when they first have ***….mine was happy and unfortunatly…my boyfriends were sad.
nutritionallyfortified2 - June 6th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
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I knew someone who was almost 30 so you aren’t alone.

What’s wrong with your appearance? There’s plenty of overweight people in the world. Just develop a hangout or go someplace outside of class on a regular basis where there are women. Find someone you like who seems nice and start a conversation.

Keep it casual and take some time to get to know her. If she’s receptive to you and likes you then she’ll keep talking to you, look forward to seeing you, laugh and smile a lot, that sort of thing. Try a little bit of flirtation and joking and see how it goes.

Then just ask, “Would you like to go out sometime?” Or if she has expressed an interest in something like say a movie then say, “Yeah I’ve been meaning to see that too! Do you want to go see it tomorrow?”

Try not to worry about your weight. Anyone with a good heart who is worth knowing or dating is not going to have issues with it no matter what.
Roberto J - June 8th, 2009 at 12:06 am
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nope, its what you do, your moves that count not your werigt, if your isnucre lose the wegiht go to a workout place, your meet girls and possibly(high chance of this happening) can date them. thats where people usually meet. Dont be insecure, be a nice caring person.
emdrrds - June 9th, 2009 at 2:46 pm
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dont change anything about yourself, if you do exercise, do it for your health, no one else but you. if a women doesnt want to date you because of your appearence they are shallow. you shouldnt want to just have *** just b/c, if and when you fall in love, that is the key…we all wish we waited till we thought the love was real, most of us regret that probably
Andge - June 12th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
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Seek Christ!
sirius70 - June 16th, 2009 at 12:41 am
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Glad you are going out there. Just don’t get too comfortable in your ways, or you could end up like me, a guy in his late 30s and still a virgin.
fated82 - June 17th, 2009 at 8:19 am
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Its not a wise idea to start a relationship motivated by ***. I have a blog about dating and relationship and maybe you might be interested in it.