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Is it more important to find love, or compatibility???

baron d asked:

I recently broke up with a woman I really felt love for, and I know she felt the same for me.

All my life I have looked for “the one” that I would marry, and have my children with. I pictured having the important firsts together that families have, the excitement of a new baby, the milestones of sharing the first steps and words of the child.Being able to see a new world together, and making it our world.

I met a very nice girl, and we were perfect…except she had two children from a loser she met before me.I did not intend for the relationship to grow, but it did. I felt that the two of us had been cheated, because if we had met at a different time…we would have been the kind of couple that would make other couples sick, because it would have been perfect.

My inability to look past this ultimately destroyed the relationship…but i feel I deserve better than to “settle”. Do I have too many wants out of life? Are my dreams reasonable? Any advice is appreciated.

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One Response to 'Is it more important to find love, or compatibility???'

lylie - April 28th, 2008 at 5:06 am
Love or compatibility are important.

You fell in love with this woman and her package came with two kids. Love them or you disappear!

If you think you deserve better than what you are having now, break up with this woman.

You knew all along that this woman has two kids, and yet you gave her hope to be able to love again. Now, for your own selfish reasons, you want to call off because she didn’t meet the requirement you had set for youself. We grew up having thoughts of marrying that “Ideal” person, but in real life, what’s “Ideal”? Perfect?? 100% Pure??? If that the case, are you Perfect or 100% pure to start off with??

C’mon, you are mature enough to follow your ideal dreams to pursue someone of your choice, but yet, you fell for her. You knew from the start that she a mother of two kids but that didn’t stopped you. If you think you deserve better, what makes you think she and her kids don’t deserve more than what you are wishing to deserve?!?

Leave them, because they don’t need a selfish person in their lives. Good luck to you!