Gabie asked:
how do you know if you love someone… or you just want to be with someone because your afraid to be alone… my bf told me he loved me and i couldnt say it back… he seemed kinda hurt but we just kept talking about random stuff after that… but i dont know if i love him or not… we have been together for 6 months… becuase i couldnt tell him i loved him does that mean i dont love him??
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how do you know if you love someone… or you just want to be with someone because your afraid to be alone… my bf told me he loved me and i couldnt say it back… he seemed kinda hurt but we just kept talking about random stuff after that… but i dont know if i love him or not… we have been together for 6 months… becuase i couldnt tell him i loved him does that mean i dont love him??
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no not at all. being in love is a special feeling. you have to give it time. your friend mayy have seem hurt but not everyone feels the same way. like kevin to brittney. if you don’t feel right or feel weird give yorself some time and see haw u feel in the future. anyway i hope this helps and i want you to know love may take your whole life to find.
I think that if you can’t say it then you don’t love him. But you might fall inlove iwth him over time. 6 months is not very long. Give yourself some more time.
When you are in love there will be no doubt about it. There may be times when you “think” you are in love, but when the real thing happens there will be not doubt.
You know you love someone when…
- you would do ANYTHING for them
- you hate to see them upset
- you’re always thinking about them
- you smile to yourself when you think about them
- you don’t want to go to sleep at night because reality is better than a dream could ever be
- you can be yourself around them and there’s no pressure in the relationship
- you can tell them anything, and you completely trust them
your right i dose not mean that you don’t love him because when i was going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months he said he loved me and i did not not want to say back because i didn’t want to hurt his feelings so i didn’t and once i said it i got this tingling feeling and i knew that he really did love me and that it was going to be okay so mabey the next time he says it you can say it back and see what type of feeling you get and think about it and and see if it really is that type of fealign that you alway dreamed about but think before you do it because you don’t want to make the wrong mistake because you want to be happy
maybe it could be you are just nervous and it is really difficult to tell him.
if you dont think you love him you probably dont otherwise you wouldnt be asking … when you love someone you can jsut feel it
…something is almost better than nothing, If you have to ask yourself if you love him, then the chances are that you dont,
I feel you are sticking with this guy till someone better comes along….dont do that.
maybe you do love him but you are afraid of loving him as he loves you.
well depends on ur age…… i get annoyed when my friends say the love their bf/gf that they break up w/ every week….. and we r only in 7th grade……. i believe we dont really know what love is…… and for u it doesnt mean u dont love him…… it may just mean ur not ready to say that to some1 or u just dont know if u love him………
love is a feeling you cant describe with someone you know you cant live without…its when you miss him the second he leaves ..and you smile just by thinking of him…when everything that used to go wrong suddenly goes right…when everything you do you want him to be there with you..n everything jus feels RIGHT.
love sucks i dated tons of chicks without loving um and the second i loved one she ripped my heart out.
on a lighter note (i don’t know if this will help though) your situation seems that you already got somebody and a new dude showed up. he probably is just embarrassed (referring to the random stuff)
YES IT SURELY DOES…. THAT POOR BOY.. ID RUN FROM YOU…!!!!!! THIS IS HOW I KNOW I LOVE MY BF:
BECAUSE WE HAVE……..TRUST, RESPECT, LOVE, HONESTY, SINCERITY, COMMUNICATION, DEVOTION, ect. AND SUCH ARE THE KEY TO A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP….. ANYWAY I DIDNT JUST DATE TO DATE I LET HIM COME TO ME…… I FOUND SOMEONE THAT I COULD CONSIDER SPENDING THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH… I KNOW PEOPLE SAY YOU HAVE TO TEST THE WATER OR WHATEVER ALL THAT **** IS I FIRST JUST TRIED TO PICK THE BEST ONE AND GO AROUND THAT… HE TREATS ME LIKE I AM A “QUEEN” LITERALLY… I MEAN HE DOESNT SLAVE FOR ME I CAN GET MY LAZY *** UP SOMETIMES TOO BUT HE DOES THINGS FOR ME…… CALLS ME UP FOR NO REASON AT WHATEVER TIME IT IS JUST TO TALK AND TELL ME HE LOVES ME….. HOLDS ME THE WAY HE KNOWS I LIKE TO BE HELD….KISSED…TALKED TO… THINGS LIKE THAT..SPENDS HOURS ON THE PHONE WITH ME AND EVEN IF IT IS DEAD SILENT HE APPRECIATES BEING ON THE PHONE WITH ME AT THAT MOMENT…… THINKS ABOUT ME CONSTANTLY….. TALKS TO ME HE’S NOT AFRAID TO TALK TO ME… I AM HIS GIRLFRIEND HE IMAGINES ME AS ONE OF HIS HOMEBOYS!!!!! WHATEVER HE CAN TELL THEM HE TELLS ME.. HE CONFIDES IN ME MAKING ME FEEL LIKE HE CAN TRUST ME…. HE KEEPS NO SECRETS.. DOESNT LOOK AT OTHER GIRLS. EVEN IF IT DOESNT MEAN ANYTHING THE ONLY GIRL HE IS ME….(BECAUSE HE KNOWS IF HE WAS LOOKING AT OTHER GIRLS I’D ASK HIM IF HE WANTS HER AND TELL HIM TO GO HEAD ON CAUSE I DONT PLAY THAT… HE DOESNT TAKE THE CHANCE) HE LOVES AND RESPECTS ME.. HE NEVER TRIES TO UPSET ME AND IF HE NOTICES I AM UPSET HE APOLOGIZES!!! HE APOLOGIZES FOR EVERYTHING!!!!! EVEN IF ITS SOMETHING DUMB AND I DONT KNOW WHAT HE IS APOLOGIZING FOR…. AND HE NEVER YELLS AT ME……(I MYSELF DONT CARE CAUSE I’LL YELL WITH HIM BUT HE STILL DOESNT) AND HE GIVES ME THOSE LOOKS THAT HE KNOWS I LIKE…. HE KEEPS ME HAPPY KEEPS ME INTERESTED( HE STILL TAKES CARE OF HIMSELF KEEPS HIMSELF LOOKING GOOD AND ALL) AND KEEPS ME LAUGHING…. HE ALWAYS SAYS SWEET STUFF TO ME AND ALWAYS LOOKS OUT FOR ME AND MAKES SURE I AM OK… HE COMMUNICATES WITH ME AND LISTENS TO ME HE UNDERSTANDS ME.. AND HE MAKES SURE HE IS READY TO BUST A CAP IN A DUDES *** WHEN OTHER GUYS TRY TO HOLLA AT ME.. HE DONT JUST SIT THERE AND BE LIKE “OH” HE STANDS UP FOR HIS GIRL AND IS READY TO GO REASSURING ME THAT HE WILL PROTECT ME IN ANY EVENT.. AND ###1 AS I SAID BEFORE HE TREATS HIS GIRLFREIND AS A “QUEEN” HIS “QUEEN” AND THE ONLY “QUEEN”……(MAYBE BESIDES HIS MOTHER….BUT STILL THATS A DIFFERENT RELATION…)
no ur just not ready to say i love you yet…
My bf sent this to me. This is what love is in our opinion. Also, just because you couldn’t say it doesn’t mean you don’t love him. Maybe you need to sort out your feelings for him. He may have just caught you by surprise, so you didn’t know what to say or think. Hope this helps.
> Every moment my mind has free time I’m thinking about you. I don’t
> see you for a day and I’m missing you, and even when I do see you
> during the day it always seems like it wasn’t enough time spent
> together. I can’t believe you’re real, something so beautiful can’t
> be real. I burn for feelings in return, for discussion, and
> interaction. And most importantly you’re perfect, not as in
> impossible to fill ideal perfect created by man, but in my
> standards, and as a human you’re perfect. You’re so beautiful
> its like looking at the stars, you can make a second last an
> eternity. And I never get sick of being with you.
you”re the only one who can answer your question….
It hurts more saying “I love you” and not REALLY meaning it entirely, than the other way round
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