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By: Best Match For Sagittarius

Best Match For Sagittarius — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 05:01:09 +0000

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By: T S

T S — Wed, 14 May 2008 04:53:24 +0000

I got married a few months after finding out I was pregnant. Although the hubby and I wanted to get married anyway. We were both ready and our parents were more than willing to put on a wedding for us. We got the wedding together in 2 weeks and a week later he left for bootcamp for the Army.

Everyone’s situation isn’t like that though. If you aren’t ready don’t get married. You should be ready. Not everyone who is having a baby should be married. Some aren’t ready and never will be. The moving situation is a tuff one. I believe that a woman going through pregnancy needs their own mom for moral support. My mom has been there every step of the way. I think if you and your mom are close you should be together through this whole situation. I think you should be with your family. But that is just me. Maybe you could talk your b/f into moving? I know he doesn’t want to but you have to think of what is best for you and the baby. It isn’t crying and being sad. Good luck and I wish you well.

By: Suse

Suse — Wed, 14 May 2008 00:34:25 +0000

Sweetie, go home. DON’T marry this guy if you’re not ready. If he’s truely a good guy, he’ll be okay with you going home. You really need family, friends, lots of support right now. Take care, okay? And feel free to email me, I’ve been pregnant and states away from my family…it’s tough.

By: Pretty Kitty

Pretty Kitty — Mon, 12 May 2008 11:04:27 +0000

I would do whatever you feel is right. You should tell your boyfriend exactly how you feel and tell him that you want to wait to get married. Tell him if you guys feel the same way about each other when you are ready to get married, then it will happen. If he loves you, he will understand. It’s not like you are trying to push him out of the baby’s life. During pregnancy, you can be more emotional than normal and will need his support or your family’s support. I hope that everything works out.

And marriage is a big step itself, especially on top of being pregnant. It’s just too much change at one time and you don’t want to stress yourself out.

By: jessicaball2003

jessicaball2003 — Sun, 11 May 2008 20:06:02 +0000

I know I am just an add on to your answers, but I just wanted to tell you that I got pregant at 18, and I also go married before my son was born, I didn’t know if I wanted to go threw with it, but I did, My husband and I met while I was at job corps, he is from the city and I am from the country, he moved to the country with me, we have been together for 3 years and married for 2, I love him to death. I just wanted to say what ever decsion you make with going home, you should talk to him, I mean it couldn’t heart,. I hope everything works out for you.

By: lovely

lovely — Sun, 11 May 2008 19:52:57 +0000

If you are not ready to get married then dont’ simple answer. If you choose to then get married outside where it isnt a churchor cityhall. and about moving I think you should stay in order to build the relationship with the father of your baby, you should be lucky that after only 6th months of dateing he is not running away and leaving his child so dont do the same to him.

By: Anna

Anna — Fri, 09 May 2008 12:09:52 +0000

This is a tough situation. As you know, no one can make the decision for you, but we can give opinions If you aren’t ready for marriage, don’t be forced into it. You two can save up if necessary after the baby is born incase you change your mind. If he is a good role model and father for your baby, you don’t want to deprive the child from him. If he was an asshole, it’d be different. Maybe, go back home while you are pregnant and see if there is where you want to be. Most time, it’s just home sickness and it’ll pass. If ya’ll love each other, you’ll work it out

Good luck!

By: angel01182

angel01182 — Wed, 07 May 2008 10:29:51 +0000

Tell him the truth. Tell him your not ready to be married, and you want to go home, and see your family

By: Pashta

Pashta — Sun, 04 May 2008 04:45:41 +0000

Go home, you need the support of your family right now. I’m sure if you call them they will wire you money or buy you a ticket. Oh by the way, Greyhound is extremely cheap and I’m sure you could go that way.

By: Jai

Jai — Sat, 03 May 2008 02:55:31 +0000

You shouldn’t get married if you are not ready too. Baby or no baby. Marriage is a big step…trust me I know because I am engaged and that seems to be what everyone keeps telling me. But if you are not ready for marriage then don’t do it because it will cause more stress in the relationship in the long run.

As far as his family recognizing your marriage vows, that is on them because the marriage vows are not for everyone else to accept but for you two except.

If you would feel more comfortable going through your pregnancy closer to your family, then I think that he should understand that. First off, you shouldn’t ever feel like you are stuck just because of someone else. I mean you don’t have to move back home, you should be able to compromise that you want to be close to your family when you have this child. You are not depriving his rights by wanting to be close to your family.

So don’t stress out about anything because everything will work out just fine. Just pray about everything and calm down because you can do anything you set your mind too.

I wish you will and if you every need someone to talk to email me at