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20 Responses to “They say that each of us has a soul mate. But what about those who are and have remained single?”
ms annabelle, one’s soulmate is not necessary the person you are married to. i know several married folks whose soulmate is not their spouse but rather a dear friend (same sex or not) who completes them in a way their spouse do not…so yes, doesn’t have to be sexual but in a way that is so special it defies any other label but that of being soulmates.
therefore even a single person has a soulmate – someone who transcends the common boundaries of friendship…someone who is always there beyond time and space.
i believe some people are so lucky they have multiple soulmates in their lifetime…but for the unluckey few, they have none at all.
Having soulmate doesnt mean that he’s your future someone..Some are your friend some are you classmate some are your relatives..Soulmate is the one that you feel deep and natural affinity…compatibility is what people say in more common way…
They are out there. Just a matter of their paths meeting at the opportune time and place. There is a very special someone for everyone. The convergence however is another thing.
since I was 8 years old, I felt like a soul mate was reserved for me. I knew she was out there some where. I had women come across my path over the years and i thought they were “the one” for me but they were not.
Then I became confused and did not know which way to turn. After a couple of dead end relationships i started to lose my hope of finding my soulmate.
Lo and behold, to my surprise. I crossed paths with a woman who inspired that young 8 year old boy that lives inside of me. This beautiful young woman felt like my prayers over the years finally came through.
We both have a better vision and motivation for our lives.
beautiful Love story.
Ms.Annabelle,
i go for moonlight lady’s answer,soul mate is not necessary the person we’re going to marry and if they are the one supposedly we’re marrying with some of them never find each other.Trust me if you are in Phils. and your soul mate lives in other side of the world you need luck to find ways meeting them,probably you never even know they exist.
Soulmates are kindred spirits or souls created with the same thread. One can have more than one soul mate and we all have a number of soul mates – a friend, a brother or sister, a lover, a husband or even a stranger.
it’s true, each of us do have a soul mate.
but no one said that we would all meet them!
that’s why some people are just called to a single life in which their love and affection is directed to others (not partners) like kids, animals, blah blah.
just like Mr./Ms Right, our soulmate just happens…we do not search for it nor does it search us….it a spontaneous thing that could happen (or not happen) between individuals whose paths are destined to meet…..would be really nice if Mr./Ms Right is also our soulmate but it’s not always so….still, it could happen to anyone, even among those in the state of single blessedness.
Those who are and have remained single have “surot” for soulmates. They are everywhere he is, especially when they took residence in his hair. And he could feel their pain and hunger for company. He wakes at night, and would desperately try to grasp his soulmates, but they simply disappear.
(Of course he can’t see them. They are hiding in his hair.)
For those who are single, I wouldn’t say that it’s because they haven’t met their soulmate yet. I’d say that they are either choosy/picky or is just not ready yet.
I’ve heard and have been told several times that we won’t be marrying our soulmates, ever. Some won’t even meet their soulmates at all.
I don’t know and I’ll never know if those statements are true. But I’d like to believe that it is us who makes another person our soulmate. Yes, there is destiny and fate…but if the person you are with right now isn’t your soulmate, would you suddenly call it quits?
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March 25th, 2008 at 2:24 pm
Well, it seems i am one of those single without soul mate…:D
But i am not losing hope, cause i believe in sayings that “Life begins at 40.”
March 26th, 2008 at 10:54 pm
well the thing is… they haven’t found their soul mate yet.. it isn’t easy.. and it won’t just pop out of nowhere…
March 29th, 2008 at 5:40 am
They are their own soul mate.
March 31st, 2008 at 10:13 am
ms annabelle, one’s soulmate is not necessary the person you are married to. i know several married folks whose soulmate is not their spouse but rather a dear friend (same sex or not) who completes them in a way their spouse do not…so yes, doesn’t have to be sexual but in a way that is so special it defies any other label but that of being soulmates.
therefore even a single person has a soulmate – someone who transcends the common boundaries of friendship…someone who is always there beyond time and space.
i believe some people are so lucky they have multiple soulmates in their lifetime…but for the unluckey few, they have none at all.
March 31st, 2008 at 11:44 am
yes there are soul mates for singles as well BUT single also and they maybe in the different part of the world ,and will never get to know each other
April 3rd, 2008 at 2:39 pm
zzz… being married doesn’t mean your spouse is your soulmate. hmmm… beer… zzz…
April 6th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
Having soulmate doesnt mean that he’s your future someone..Some are your friend some are you classmate some are your relatives..Soulmate is the one that you feel deep and natural affinity…compatibility is what people say in more common way…
Well,i hope you find one….Good Day
April 7th, 2008 at 8:08 am
it’s a choice!
if you are single, it doesn’t mean you don’t have a soulmate. some people wanted to stay single, and some say it’s a calling!
and a soulmate does not have to be someone from the opposite sex. you can consider your mother or bestfriend as your soulmate!
April 9th, 2008 at 7:11 pm
then their soulmate is still single. they havent met yet.
April 12th, 2008 at 5:15 am
“they” lie.
April 12th, 2008 at 5:47 pm
They are out there. Just a matter of their paths meeting at the opportune time and place. There is a very special someone for everyone. The convergence however is another thing.
April 14th, 2008 at 7:46 am
Well, I can only speak for myself.
since I was 8 years old, I felt like a soul mate was reserved for me. I knew she was out there some where. I had women come across my path over the years and i thought they were “the one” for me but they were not.
Then I became confused and did not know which way to turn. After a couple of dead end relationships i started to lose my hope of finding my soulmate.
Lo and behold, to my surprise. I crossed paths with a woman who inspired that young 8 year old boy that lives inside of me. This beautiful young woman felt like my prayers over the years finally came through.
We both have a better vision and motivation for our lives.
beautiful Love story.
April 16th, 2008 at 1:09 am
Ms.Annabelle,
i go for moonlight lady’s answer,soul mate is not necessary the person we’re going to marry and if they are the one supposedly we’re marrying with some of them never find each other.Trust me if you are in Phils. and your soul mate lives in other side of the world you need luck to find ways meeting them,probably you never even know they exist.
April 16th, 2008 at 10:22 pm
for me, a soul mate doesn’t necessarily have to be someone whom you have a romantic relationship with..
April 17th, 2008 at 3:20 am
Soulmates are kindred spirits or souls created with the same thread. One can have more than one soul mate and we all have a number of soul mates – a friend, a brother or sister, a lover, a husband or even a stranger.
April 19th, 2008 at 3:20 am
it’s true, each of us do have a soul mate.
but no one said that we would all meet them!
that’s why some people are just called to a single life in which their love and affection is directed to others (not partners) like kids, animals, blah blah.
April 21st, 2008 at 9:01 pm
just like Mr./Ms Right, our soulmate just happens…we do not search for it nor does it search us….it a spontaneous thing that could happen (or not happen) between individuals whose paths are destined to meet…..would be really nice if Mr./Ms Right is also our soulmate but it’s not always so….still, it could happen to anyone, even among those in the state of single blessedness.
April 23rd, 2008 at 5:36 pm
Those who are and have remained single have “surot” for soulmates. They are everywhere he is, especially when they took residence in his hair. And he could feel their pain and hunger for company. He wakes at night, and would desperately try to grasp his soulmates, but they simply disappear.
(Of course he can’t see them. They are hiding in his hair.)
April 25th, 2008 at 10:48 pm
in destiny, everybody has soul-mate…
in real life, it’s a choice…
April 28th, 2008 at 7:55 pm
For those who are single, I wouldn’t say that it’s because they haven’t met their soulmate yet. I’d say that they are either choosy/picky or is just not ready yet.
I’ve heard and have been told several times that we won’t be marrying our soulmates, ever. Some won’t even meet their soulmates at all.
I don’t know and I’ll never know if those statements are true. But I’d like to believe that it is us who makes another person our soulmate. Yes, there is destiny and fate…but if the person you are with right now isn’t your soulmate, would you suddenly call it quits?