True love???????????
diamond gal asked:
I did really stupid and selfish things to my boyfriend I was going through a lot (unwanted pregnancy which I wound up terminating please no judgement) and I was drinking a lot (which I know is stupid) and I was verbally abusive to him and he asked me for space which I was unable to give him because I was so afraid of losing him. As time went on I only made things worse. I would suffocate him and do outlandish things. I am convinced I truly do love him I was just going through a rough patch (at this point this is what I think) but at this point he wants nothing to do with me (which I dont blame him for) but they say true love never dies. If he TRULY loved me would he have left? and stopped loving me? I am working everyday to change myself and make myself better I contacted him to apologize and let him know I was sorry and told him I loved him and I figured I would leave it to him but if he truly loved me that should never die. Am I wrong? I realize I messed up and I am working on me.
He seemed like he doesnt love me anymore. Granted he could just be hurt and need time to get over it but he has said to me before I never loved anyone as much as I loved you in my entire life and I dont think I ever will again. I smiled and he said that includes you as well
I did really stupid and selfish things to my boyfriend I was going through a lot (unwanted pregnancy which I wound up terminating please no judgement) and I was drinking a lot (which I know is stupid) and I was verbally abusive to him and he asked me for space which I was unable to give him because I was so afraid of losing him. As time went on I only made things worse. I would suffocate him and do outlandish things. I am convinced I truly do love him I was just going through a rough patch (at this point this is what I think) but at this point he wants nothing to do with me (which I dont blame him for) but they say true love never dies. If he TRULY loved me would he have left? and stopped loving me? I am working everyday to change myself and make myself better I contacted him to apologize and let him know I was sorry and told him I loved him and I figured I would leave it to him but if he truly loved me that should never die. Am I wrong? I realize I messed up and I am working on me.
He seemed like he doesnt love me anymore. Granted he could just be hurt and need time to get over it but he has said to me before I never loved anyone as much as I loved you in my entire life and I dont think I ever will again. I smiled and he said that includes you as well
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March 13th, 2008 at 1:12 am
you know what, even the strongest love will fade with so much hurt…if you are really inlove with the person, you would like to give the best of yourself to him and would avoid hurting him…if you want him to stay, then you better be good…but i’m a bit confused…isn’t it easy for you to make that other person happy?..are you really sure that you’re inlove with him?…you might have to think it over,,i guess there’s something wrong…well, it’s a good thing that you’re trying to change and that you apologized…
March 15th, 2008 at 8:56 pm
ok u could love him and he probably does love u or did love u but nobody wants to be treated that way or around someone like that and you probably really hurted him. give him time to heal and think things over id say a month or two and if he is not talking to u still then move on.
March 16th, 2008 at 1:45 am
When someone is hurt like that they can continue to love you,and even forgive you,but that does’nt mean they will stay with you and put up with your cruelty.
March 17th, 2008 at 7:18 pm
It’s good that you apologized, but I’ve been the guy side of this, and he probably thinks that you haven’t changed. If he were to go back to you, you’d just be the same, and he’d hurt all over again. It will take time, but if you really want him back then you need to convince him you’ve changed for the better and that you truly love him with all your heart.
True love may never die, but it can be wounded to within an inch of life. It can become small and no longer such a big part of that person’s life. But just because someone truly loves me doesn’t mean they will stay if you treat them like shit. Don’t take the fact that he left that way. Treat it the way it is: you wronged him, and unless he wanted to be in an abusive relationship he had to leave. Has he said he stopped loving you? And even if he did, don’t dismiss the possibility of him lying. It takes work and time. Don’t expect a magic fix, you’re doing the best thing right now, so just keep doing it.