What was the hardest thing you have ever had to tell your soul mate?

Praire Crone asked:

I had to tell mine that the doctors had given me a less than 50% chance of surviving my Cancer. That was over 6 years ago now and I came out of it. But at the time they weren’t sure. It was a tough time for my whole family.

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13 Responses to 'What was the hardest thing you have ever had to tell your soul mate?'

Andralas - June 23rd, 2008 at 1:45 am
damn… youve got me beat. youve got everyone beat… why even ask this question LOL.

um, i told her about this time i chased a cat with a broom and it got scared and crapped itself. i feel so awful cuz i love kitties so much and im such an animal person. being young and dumb sucks… damn destructive human nature *shakes fist at the sky*
lirpa - June 25th, 2008 at 7:58 am
That i showed my nipple to a bartender once….

he thought it was hot tho.
pony - June 28th, 2008 at 6:39 pm
Glad to hear you came out of it okay! Man, that had to be scary.
Hardest thing I ever had to tell him was that I had to leave him. I always regretted it, but you can never go back. I made a good life for myself. He was a blast, he just had no ambition and I wanted the world. He still to this day has nothing but the clothes on his back.
Zina Rae - June 29th, 2008 at 6:03 pm
I will send positive thoughts your way!

So far, the hardest thing I had to tell him is that I got a speeding ticket, I was going 90 in a 35 mile zone. It was when I was a cab driver. The police officer knew me and put on the ticket I was going 40. It was 3am in the morning and I was going to pick up a female bartender we both knew. The bartender worked in a bad part of town and I was so intent on getting to her I didn’t pay attention to my speed. Let’s just say those Crown Vic’s can get up and move!

Blessings
stephen k - June 29th, 2008 at 7:33 pm
That she was just like her father. (If you knew my wife, this is the Atomic Bomb Attack, as it wipes out everything and devastation for miles and miles)
tricianglen@sbcglobal.net - July 2nd, 2008 at 11:48 pm
that i had slept with more people than he thought.
hedgewitch - July 5th, 2008 at 4:24 pm
i had to tell mine yesterday that despite loving him he had to leave as his addictive and recently destructive behaviour has turned the most beautiful and passionate and spiritual relationship into an abusive relationship and the kids deserved better than a man blinded to his actions and determined to follow in the footsteps of his fathers alcoholic legacy

i am devastated

but it was either that or let him destroy us all

and what makes me angry is he is swanning about taking week off work to wallow with his friends whilst i must keep it together to look after the children!!!

he thinks he’s an indestructible Peter Pan

and that breaks my heart because inside he has much beauty but he is allowing his dark side to dominate and there is nothing anyone can do, except what i have done this week
*~Ariel Brigalow Moondust~* - July 6th, 2008 at 2:00 pm
I had to tell Jay that his father had terminal prostate cancer.
His Mum told me on the quiet and asked me to let him know….
also took the call when he died and had to wake my husband to tell him the man he idolised had passed away.

Its something i hope i never have to repeat.

However this is something worse! My father in law was a policeman and he attended the accident that his wifes father was killed in~ he had to go home and tell his wife( my mother in law) what he had just witnessed!~ I cant imagine having to of been in his shoes that day!
Ariel
bgdadyp - July 8th, 2008 at 11:31 am
i had to tell her that i was dieing.
i have pulmonary fibrosis and until now i have kept it under wraps except for a few friends. now here it is for the world to know.
i have less than a year ….or so they tell me.
that doesn’t mean i have given up the fight however.
i have no intention of lying down gracefully and letting go.
i will go if i must but not without one hell of a fight.
Atrum Animus - July 11th, 2008 at 3:49 am
Wow – I can’t compare on that. The toughest thing is that I spent to much money on Halo 3.
Raji the Green Witch - July 12th, 2008 at 3:15 am
The hardest thing I’ve ever had to tell someone I love is that I ate the REST of the Ben & Jerry’s Phish Food. What can I say? We BOTH loved it, Fortunately SHE is gone but the B&J’s is STILL here. LOL

BB,
Raji the Green Witch
xenypoo - July 15th, 2008 at 2:25 pm
Go clean your room. My son is my soul mate. We’re very close, and great friends. But he does sometimes get upset when I have to act like a mom, and tell him to CLEAN UP HIS MESS! LOL
SpeedyGonz - July 17th, 2008 at 10:33 am
I don’t think I have a soul-mate. But reading all of these answers makes me realize that life is tough no matter what. There are a lot of brave souls out there. Bad things happen for no other reason than life is hard and really sucks sometimes. Maybe that’s why I try to laugh as often as possible and I love making others laugh. Have a great day.